Boring sex in relationship

communicate, like you said talking about what you want improves the sex.

Communicate to her what exactly you want her to do and if she loves you she'll do it

Talk to her about it and give her time. Don't have a mid-high expectation from someone with little experience. In my relationship, I fucking sucked having sex and making out for the first year. I'm her second boyfriend and she's my first, so she probably had someone way better than I at first. Took some time and now the sex is great after getting more comfortable and satisfying our fetishes. Speak to her about your fetishes, anything.

>>16792614
I did but she says she is not comfortable doing what I want and I allways do my best to let her feel that's okay to be nasty in between the sheets but she doesnt really feel comfortable doing so. The last girl I slept with was a total freak. Like slamming her ass in to me and saying things like I need your dick now and cum on me. And when she sucked that D she was sucking like there was no tomorrow. Now when I finally have somebody I want to go steady with I would like the sex to be like this as well. But she puts up this shy face and then stutters out f-f-fuck me tries it once or twice and kinda forgets about it. Now I do really love her but im getting kinda annoyed by it and it is seeping in to our daily lives and I was hoping I could avoid that

you are the man. you have to make shit happen. next time your fucking, its your responsibility to take it up a notch. be more aggressive

>>16792506
>problem here
>problem her

>I do really love her. But the sex is kinda vanilla. Have talked about this allready and it has changed for the better slightly. But it's still not what I'm used to and I would like her to be more active and spontaneous cause it allways has to come from me.
>I do really love her. But the sex is kinda vanilla. Have talked about this allready and it has changed for the better slightly. But it's still not what I'm used to and I would like her to be more active and spontaneous cause it allways has to come from me.

I think the problem might be that you just keep doing the same thing, over and over again, without any variation to keep things interesting.

>>16792702
Some girls just aren't like that. I had the same problem. Solved it by getting a side chick who is my sexual doppelgänger. We meet for amazing sex once a month then go back to normal married life.

>>16792839
Damn it I saw it too lazy too correct pasted it twice. Now im not in the least insecure about my own sexual capabilities but I would like to get hers uo to my level