I love my gf, but I'm increasingly less sexually attracted

>>16792039
Fuck/fap less.

>>16792043
This.

Also were to planning on giving us a reason why? I don't know what the fuck kinda advice you'd expect otherwise.

>>16792064

I don't know how to explain it better. I just stopped being attracted to her.

We haven't been together long, a few months. I love her personality, but I have no sexual attraction to her.

>>16792082
Stop fapping/cumming in general. If she wants sex just say you don't need to cum and just want to focus on her.

After 3-4 days of not cumming she'll look like a porn star to you

Same problem her I do really love her. But the sex is kinda vanilla. Have talked about this allready and it has changed for the better slightly. But it's still not what I'm used to and I would like her to be more active and spontaneous cause it allways has to come from me.

>>16792039
Leave
I wasted two years with a girl for this reason
I wanted to bail after a month
It ended up leading to two years of disfunction

>>16792399

The sex never got better and led to problems?

>>16792039
I'm a female with the same issue. Currently trying to spice things up to fix this but it's like trying to turn on a wall. I think for us it's his lack of enthusiasm. I'm the one who has to ask to fuck all the time so it's hard to show attraction for someone who's happy playing on a computer all night rather than with me. And he doesn't want to try new things because he goes soft. Maybe performance anxiety? I went from bdsm to vanilla and masturbation helps only so much. Any suggestions for how to make a guy more horny? That would ultimately make me more attracted. Could work for you too. If you know she's been wanting your dick all day could bring the attraction back

>>16792573
What really does it for me is if I notice she really really wants it. And spontaneous actions. Like pulling my dick out at times I would not expect it and just starts suckin. Or some dirty talk and eye contact during sex. Grabbing, slapping not afraid to take the lead, fuck me like this etc. Gotta quit right there cause im getting all kinds of hard and aint even got to the goodstuff yet while my gf is dead asleep.