I might have to face a discussion with my uncle and aunt tomorrow, about problems I'm having with my father.
I never had a "real talk" with them, or at all for that matter,
and if I did I was probably crying my eyes out when I was 16.
Even today when my uncle faced me about it I didn't know how to answer because I was extremely embarassed,
I was stuttering and mispronouncing words.
How do I go trough this level headed?
The thing is I suspect my father asked them to lend them some money,
without me knowing, because for some time I've been refusing giving him any.
My uncle was not direct about this, and I'm too embarassed to ask so the whole thing becomes even more difficult.
They are family.
Assuming they are on the level they will hear you out and this will stay between you three.
It would not guarantee it but you can be sure what they would do with the info. Then just tell it like it is.
Ah I'm sure that wouldn't be the case,
my aunt gossips like fucking hell but they already knew something was up,
and I don't really mind if other people know about this.
I could really use the help, I just don't know how to face the "humiliation" (lend me a word here) of opening up to them.