I'm not horny for my girl anymore.
She's pretty much my ideal body type. We have kinky sex, we explore, and we have a great time. But, as time goes on, the less I am turned on by her and the less I find her sexy. I can see a girl who is objectively far less attractive than her and I can pop wood.
What the fuck is wrong and how do I fix it. I don't want to end this relationship, but I will have to if this path continues on the way it's going.
Break up with her, and find less attractive girls to bang, and then look back and think "wtf was I thinking breaking up with her? I'm an idiot." Then proceed to beg to have her back in your life, and then be rejected, and crushed by all the photos she has on facebook with her new boyfriend, who is much smarter, richer, and better looking than you.
Lol ur dumb.
I'm monogamous. I haven't ever cheated, but the thought that every woman I'm with will become unattractive to me (has happened every-damn-time) makes me think I'll have to cheat some day if I ever decide to get married.
This happens to me, I never knew other people experienced it. My longest relationship lasted for four months or so and I just stopped being attracted to her. Couldn't get it up, and even trying to made me uncomfortable. I even stopped being attracted to a girl I was seeing recently after three days. Do you have any weird fetishes?
I'm not desperate. This has been going on for a while with every girl I've dated, very attractive to not very attractive. I'm good friends with a bunch of my ex's, and disconnected pretty well with all the rest (except for one, but that's a different story).
Lol tx 4 da words
I like being with a girl. Everything else is great. She's fun, we're compatible, sex is great, it's just this one thing. It's just a big thing.
I'd rather not just stick to prostitutes and one night stands.
Not sure what's weird. Nothing all that weird. Petite girls with big tits? Long nipples? Dat ass? Maybe a little light bondage, rope play and stuff, but nothing I consider all that weird.
Good to know I'm not alone. How the fuck are you solving it?
I'm not solving it. It's made me terrified of relationships and a little insecure about sex. I just have casual sex sometimes but only if girls come to me, I can't be bothered to actively pursue them anymore.
Actually, now that I think abouy it weed really helped me get over it if I recall. I'd have the same problem if I was drunk, but I felt extremely attracted to my gf when I was stoned and was mad good at sex lol
Maybe you're cumming too often.
Either too much sex where you cum or too much masturbation, but regardless try avoiding ejaculating for 3-4 days then you won't be able to keep your hands off your gf.
Worked for me. Started losing attraction, couldn't even cum during sex...stopped cumming during sex for a while and stopped fapping and within a week it felt like I was dating a porn star. Everything felt so much more attractive. She has a great body, but after not cumming for five days it's like having a porn star in bed with you.
Haha true, I also love to smoke cigs and drink to excess. Maybe it's something to do with that.
also what the dude below that post said. i jerk off a lot so that might be an issue kek
Maybe. I'll give it a try after Valentine's Day. I can hold off on cumming, even though that doesn't sound as fun. I'm getting my chick a Magic Wand for Valentine's Day so I can just say I'm focusing on her for the entire Valentine's Week.
Shit man, she'll think I'm a hero, and maybe it saves our relationship.
yeah definitely dude. save your energy for your gf. Only fap if she's out of town or on her period or something.
Otherwise save up big loads and expend them on your gf.
At one point I had so much sex with my gf and I was cumming 3-4 times a day. Within a week I didn't find her nearly as attractive, or any girls. I just stopped caring about sex for two days.
It kind of sucked because she wanted sex but I didn't and I hard trouble cumming. she thought it was her fault but I just wasn't interested in sex, I was exhausted