>calls friend who i havent talked to in about a month
>"do you miss me"
>"what am i missing? are you benefiting me or yourself? can i hit you up if i need your help? dont call me for no reason. can i hang up im eating and my food is gonna get cold, maybe i might call you. call me back when you graduate. what are you gonna do after school? if you're not doing cool shit dont hit me up
we should just call you jizz. cuz damn, that salty.
but seriously. sounds like a dick. i mean im sure you're needy and/or other issues, but this person basically boiled it down to 'if you can't benefit me, stop bugging me'. theres no way to find meaning in that. even if you did wrong to him somewhere in your life, hes become too jaded for it to matter.
then why are you surprised that this happened? why would you go to him being needy? you know hes bad then dont do be with him.
>BUT IM DAMAGED IN SOME WAY THAT MAKES ME WANT HIM
then get over that. nows better than tomorrow.
all that being said, we like to assume that were these positive beacons of light and are always nice and the world randomly shits on us, but lets be real, the fact that you were needy enough to ask him if he misses you shows that hte situation (like all situations) is more layered and complex.
all that being said as well, hes not worth your time. go be needy somewhere else.
Again, been through similar. Further calls will only push him away farther. In my experience they took my virginity and I was told not to call them.
It took 2 years to realize it's seriously actually over. Might as well stop now before you're labeled a stalker.
I had a best friend for close to 7 years. He was like a brother to me but despite living barely a few miles from each other I barely saw the guy. Once every few months
I raised the issue of barely seeing him numerous times over the period of a year and nothing changed. In the end I just ended the friendship.
Whats worse is him being labeled a pedophile because he talked to me when i was underage and hes mid twenties. So if im labeled a stalker i can just call him a pedophile. And i found his ex's tumblr and found out he anally raped her. Im never bringing it up but I know all kinds of shit he has no idea about.
I'm actually a snapback wearing /b/tard schizophrenic feminist
But i apparently hit a nerve, which was half the intention of my post, with the other half being genuine curiosity. So do you plan on being truthful?
>a statement reserved for two people in a sexual relationship that haven't seen each other in awhile
we are in a sexual relationship....friendship
and we haven't seen each other in awhile