>love her so much
How the fuck do I stop getting jealous over other dudes though? I get jealous and paranoid really easily. Terrified of losing her. I know she loves me and is loyal but goddamn it gets annoying. There's so many dudes that hit on her and ask her out since we are in college. It's kinda stressful and I just want to stop getting so nervous and upset about it.
What do you mean by step my game up?
I do tons for her. We have a lot of fun. We get along great. I surprise her. I take her out. I am courteous. I make her laugh. I'm there for her when she's sad. She's not just my girlfriend, she's my best friend. And I treat her very well.
Like I said, I'm not worried about her cheating on me. I know she's loyal. I just have anxiety issues and I get paranoid because I have a mental health issue and have had some real shitty partners in the past.
The legit answer is cliche as fuck, be more confident or act like it. Be Unphased by other fuck boys. When a dude hits on her you reply laughing and fucking the life out of your girlfriend that night OP. It sounds like you already make her feel special and wanted just don't let other dudes fuck with you because that's a rabbit hole
You are young and haven't even lived life yet, this is a learning oppertunity on how to handle these complex fucking stupid emotions that are dumb and that we all feel for being dumb humans.
Good luck OP, your happiness about having a cool chick and best friend should dwarf insecurity about other foods
> I just have anxiety issues and I get paranoid because I have a mental health issue and have had some real shitty partners in the past.
Are you going to therapy for your mental issues?
Because if your problem is not her, but just your mental issues and your past, that's the only way to get over it.
The never ending feeling of inadequacy that comes from having a bf/gf who you know is out of your league.
It boils down to one thing: Either you trust her, or you don't. If you trust her, then all these feelings you have are YOUR OWN INSECURITY and you need to deal with that.
If you don't trust her, it's breakup tiem.
Look at all the great-looking and successful guys around you. And every time you pass one, say to yourself but secretly to him, "She saw you and she chose me. Swallow that, loser!"