I'm a girl and I have this female friend who is driving me mad. Here's why:
>whenever talks with me talks about boobs (she has none, I have G cup becaue I'm fat and she bangs on and on how terrible it is to be a flatchest
>always mentions her ex, some guys she currently obsesses over (and there's plenty of them)
>complains how she misses sex, cuddling and having a bf
>is terribly shallow, talks about boobs, ass, make up and clothes all the time
issue? I don't give a fuck at all. I mean, I heard these things already so many times it bores me to death. Her elaborate essays tfw no tits, or summaries of her dreams about and ex she was with for 3 nights five years ago...
I have other girl friends and we talk about boys and sex and make up and cute clothes and all that girly shit, but they can talk about other things to; this one is always focused on her looks and tfw no bf and it makes me feel uncomfortable like hell. I don't even know how to respond to half of her messages
Theres a difference to having a friend who sees you as a friend, and a friend who sees you as a GIRLfriend. She probably just thinks that this is how she's supposed to talk with other females. Honestly, I would just distance yourself from her because types like these are basic and only want to get laid and talk about getting laid.
yeah, she's kinda clingy and I have no reason to cut her because we don't fight because I detest her quietly. Shes always the one to talk, message first and I feel bad with not replying
also she tells me how much I mean to her and how she likes me and misses me and all this shit so I feel super guilty whenever I even consider ending friendship with her
I have a guy friend, actually, and I love him in non romantic way but he was recently v shitty to me so we don't talk
anyway my female friend knows him to and always comments on how fit he is and ponders on his sex life and it makes me feel super awkward because he's like my bro
she literally wants to shag any bloke she knows and always fails and tells me about it at length and I just don't care abour sex or relationship that much so I'm like 'okay, xd'
can't be arsed to take a pic, Peggy
is the faggot sad cause he cant get laid?
You have two choices:
1) phase her out gently: slowly stop replying to her. Make replies less and less frequent until she stops. If she asks why, you say everyone's favourite lie "I was busy".
2) Burn your bridges: Tell her straight that you find her conversation repetitive, shallow and self absorbed. Tell her you don't wish to continue the friendship. Expect defensiveness and possibly tears.
99% of people choose option 1 because most people are cowards who want an easy life.
All right, well I think her being clingy and not having common interests is definitely a legitimate reason to stop being friends. I'm the master of burning bridges with people, but if you want to save the friendship and your sanity, could you hint at your disinterest? I'd recommend being honest with her instead, though.
well, I told her more than once that these are not my topics and I think it shows. I don't want to hurt her feelings or whatever but it's so tedious to talk with her six hours daily about small tits and lack of sex. Whenever I try to introduce another topic she switches back
Maybe you should just set her up with someone. Even if it's the guy friend who was shitty to you or just some person you don't really know, show them a picture of her and ask if they'd tap it. Introduce them. At the very least she probably won't be AS desperate. Although she will probably talk to you about fucking them.
Women are so dumb. You don't line her, you don't find her interesting, you have nothing but bad things to say about her, why even call her your friend? And why make this thread, you're really not askimg for advice, you're just venting because you know that the way you feel about this girl is the way your friend group feels about you. No one wants to read this inane chatter.
Did you tell her or.... Really Tell Her.....
In the middle of her raving on, say "Enough" in a loud voice. Sit her down don't let her get a word in until you've finished telling her what you've told us.
It might be what she needs to change, or at least self assess.
DG but I can guarantee its not about you, she doesnt come here
Stop projecting m8
Yeah, I guess i'll tell her it seriously bothers me that she always bitches about the same non relevant things
But i really tried to a avoid doing that because it's gonna upset her but i suppose its still better than giving her up completely
>Yeah, I guess i'll tell her it seriously bothers me that she always bitches about the same non relevant things
>But i really tried to a avoid doing that because it's gonna upset her but i suppose its still better than giving her up completely
Instead of doing that, why don't you steer the conversation towards more interesting, in-depth topics? You don't need to go "hey you suck you're boring" just go "you know, I just think X is more interesting than obsessing about tits, why do we girls always focus on our appearance, yadda yadda " etc.
If you really want to cut contact with her then slowly stop replying to her or give her really short, vague messages that suggest your apathy with out being direct.
its sounds like this girl has high standards from what you have said and she keeps trying to get with guys that are not interested. she should just go on a dating site, tinder or craigslist if she just wants to fuck. she will get tons of messages.
Your friend is obviously either very thirsty and loves sex or acts and talks like a slut because she hates her dad, maybe both. Also, I think you need to lighten up (not physically, mentally I mean) and learn to live a little, because your friend sounds like more fun than a bore like you
In the interest of learning how to let loose and have fun, post a pic of your breasts or kindly get the fuck out