I feel like a girl is cheating on me every time we don't talk. I always feel like I'm going to find something out about a girl like she was trying to fuck someone before we got together or she cheated on me and I never knew. Shit like this happens with every single girl I've dated and I live in a small community so you really get a feel for how girls are.
What do I do? I'm always afraid I'm going to get emotionally invested and then find out it was all lies and she cheated on me the first week we dated or something
Inb4 insecure this was learned
>>16787818
>cheated on me the first week we dated or something
It's not cheating in the first weeks of dating.
>>16787825
I mean first week of being in a relationship
I still wouldn't want a girl that ratchet anyway I'm looking for long term stuff
You're investing yourself too much in your women.
Most women won't cheat on you if you're attractive, treat them with respect, and satisfy them in bed.
But even if you do all those, a girl still might cheat if she's a slut deep down.
You have to accept this and be prepared for it. When a girl cheats on you, that's when you say "cool when can I get my things?"
Collect your belongings and never talk to them again, on to the next one.
Focus on yourself for happiness, don't depend on other people. If you depend on other people to make you happy you will live a very disappointing life.
>>16787818
I feel for ya man.