>tries to talk to girl
>gets lazy again because depression
Who else is stuck in this cycle?
You havent imrpoved yourself if your happiness is reliant on random women who reject you.
You haven't improved yourself if you let rejection get in the way of improving yourself.
Work on step 1 more.
not necessarily. i mean if ur on the quest to become supreme alpha master of dating world maybe, but for most people being told someone isnt interested in you just means that person isnt interested in you. even if ur on the same level, you dont automatically match. its generally just the females job to decide if its a match
I'm on the bad side of this cycle now. I took some time to really process objectively the things I did wrong, and the mistakes I repeated. It hurts but I guess I have to confront my self-esteem issues head on now. I've been pretending the problem doesn't exist this whole time. Talking to her knocked down my ego based on a cardboard foundation