Just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to give an awesome bj - I want to hone my skills and get good
(Not a slut, just a girl wanting to please the bf)
This comes from a guy who is not actually into bjs, so you shouldn't take anything for granted here. Most probably I am talking out of my ass anyway.
Remember that the glans on a penis is more sensitive than the rest of the penis, especially for uncircumcised males. If there is not enough salvia in your mouth, moving the penis and licking/swallowing it can be painful, so you want to make sure that your mouth is not overly dry. It's like the difference between playing the clitoris raw and playing it with some saliva. You wouldn't want someone to play on your exposed clitoris just like that, would you?
That being said, it's entirely possible that your boyfriend is less sensitive on his penis, in which case you can be a little rougher. Use your teeth, but only to an extend - you want to massage it, not bite it.
If you feel up to it, you can also try and swallow it, which is an experience for both parties. You are choking on a penis, which can be stimulating for you as well as for him - it's said that the convulsions caused by the neck muscles when they try to get rid of the dick feel really good.
If you don't want to do that or don't feel ready for it, make sure to use your tongue. Again, the glans is the most sensitive spot, so you want to "attack" your boyfriend there. On the tip, directly under the tip (where the foreskin connects with the rest of the penis) and on the edges of the glans are good spots to make it feel good.
And always keep in mind that your boyfriend also shows you if he enjoys it. Keep watching him at the beginning and try to find out his sweet spots.