I have an almost purely sexual view of women, and I'm pretty sure that's not healthy if I ever want to get rid of tfw no gf. Like, normal relationship stuff would be nice, but it's more of an afterthought to me than a reason. Essentially, I want a girlfriend so we can have sex, and that's not what girlfriends are really for.
Do I just need to get it out of my system or something?
do you have a mom or sisters?
You have a no sexual relationship with them, right? Having a gf should be like having someone that you care about as much as your mom, but that you love in a sexual way.
But the sex should be a result of the love- using a gf for sex and then expecting love to follow isn't really a great way to go about it