Anons, what do you do when you miss someone a lot but they are no longer in your life?
How do you deal with humilitating need to reach out and apologise and beg them to take you back? Work, school, new hobbies, booze, drugs - it all doesn't work. I still miss my friend
>How do you deal with humilitating need to reach out and apologise and beg them to take you back?
Block/unfriend them on all social media. Go running, play video games, watch tv, see other friends.
Then just wait
awhile. there is no time limit. emotions cant be measured. everyone has rules. half as long as the relationship, one drink for every time you fucked, etc.
its all just BS to say, awhile. just focus on life, realize she isnt the center of it, and if she WAS its time to build a life that centers on you.
It sucks man, I'm right there with you. One of my long term best friends dropped me because he doesn't like another guy I associate with, and this has been the issue for nearly a year. It's a very "him or me" situation (which is kinda gay, let's be honest), but it doesn't hurt any less that I don't get to be a part of his family's life, our friend group is splintered beyond repair, and it's just awful.
I wish I could tell you how long it lasts, but I don't know yet.
It can last a fucking long time, especially if you keep re-opening the wound.
I was hung up about a girl when I was 18, messed up and she didn't want to talk to me. I couldn't stop thinking about her for years. Mostly cause I kept looking at her posts and trying to reach out to her.
I'm 21 now, and I'm completely over it. It would have happened sooner if I just cut her out entirely.