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Can you learn to love someone? Let's say a male and female friend were friends for so long, could they fall in love? Or is love more objective than that?
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You'd have to ask the long arm of Chromosome 6.
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>learn
No, you can grow to love someone.

>objective
No, it's subjective.

How old are you?
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>>16782483
24
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>>16782486
If you have a crush on your friend just ask 'em out, buddy
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>>16782487
I think I fell in love with my fwb
I asked her about a relationship and she said we should talk about it more because she's not sure

We're supposed to talk about it tonight
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>>16782473
A friend is not likely. They're usually in the friend zone for a reason and never getting out. Fwb is possible
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>>16782530
We are fwb but I wanted to make it more
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>>16782542
Sorry bud but you've just fucked up what's known as a good thing. You're going to come off badly because you had a mutual understanding of the situation that you're now asking to alter drastically. If you're looking for a relationship go find somebody else who is too.
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>>16782542
Just how well do you know her? Does she return your feelings?
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>>16782473
no

I tried really hard to love my best guy friend
we got along so well, and he was attractive
but I just couldn't, there was just zero attraction (from my end) which is why we were friends.
If i'm interested in a guy I will never try and be his friend. It's pretty simple
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>>16782473

I know this German couple in their early 40. They known themselves since kindergarten and always were friends. When they turned 30 they decided that they should just get married already.
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>>16782554
>Just how well do you know her? Does she return your feelings
I've known her for 3 years we've probably banged 200 times and she said she's not sure she could return those feelings
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>>16782564
Isn't that a movie?
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>>16782514
Ahahaha your fucked you should use this to bail.
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>>16782563
Ok see that's his problem.

If he touched you sexually and flirted you'd be on his dick

Guys literally land themselves in the friend zone th
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>>16782563
>If i'm interested in a guy I will never try and be his friend. It's pretty simple

Really? me and my gf was friends for lke 2 months before we started dating

Friends is the lowest level and even deep in the relationship you're pretty much friends who fuck each other
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>>16782592

no. Im talking about real people
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>>16782473
>Can you learn to love someone?
Yes, but it requires concentrated effort -and a willingness to put in that effort- from all sides.

>Let's say a male and female friend were friends for so long, could they fall in love?
It happens sometimes, though that's generally rare and, more to the point, random. I would not call that a learning process. Actually LEARNING to love someone generally only happens when there is already an existing commitment: arranged marriages, for example, or marriages where the couple has fallen out of love but wants to bbrebuild.

Bottom line: she will not learn to love you. ASK HER OUT now, and take the risk of rejection like a man, or quit pining after her.
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>>16782594
no, he tried really hard
I'm saying he was attractive in general
just not to me
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>>16782598
I disagree
I am married now, he is nothing like a friend to me
I look up to him and want to do everything I can to make him happy
I don't feel that sort of diehard servitude towards any of my friends
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>>16782473
Arranged marriages are more stable and happy than normal marriages, so I'd say yes.
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>>16782980
Is this true?
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>>16783364
Reliable stats on this are hard to come by: a problem that cuts both ways.
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