Me and my bf barely have sex anymore, and when we do its not that great.. I tell him to be more aggressive and stuff but he doesn't really change his habits... he is kinda boring and he doesn't really go out of his way, he will give me a sign when he wants me to grab his dick ect. His idea of foreplay is rubbing my clit half heartedly, I can almost never get wet. He doesn't moan or talk during sex either and that's a huge turn on for me. I almost always have to initiate the sex. I don't want to tell him the sex sucks or anything and when I ask him or talk about how it can be improved he doesn't like talking about it. What should I do? He's perfect in all ways besides that.
We have started foreplay and rubbed each other's genetitals only to just stop and cuddle and sleep...
I wouldn't ever even dream of doing it with a nigger. Sorry but that repulses me now that I only browse /pol/
If you won't take good advice, why are you here? I promise there are no magic wizards here to fix your problem with a wave of the wand.
If you want better sex, communicate. It gets less awkward when you acknowledge it's awkward and both commit to do it anyway. Kind of like sex itself.
Uh you be the dominant one then.
Rape his ass if you need to, a man is a man, if you touch his peepee enough it will get hard, so aggressively come on to him , get him going and then go to town on him.
Get him excited.
its a two way street damnit.
Sounds like OP tested the waters, found them a tad chilly, and declared swimming to be an unpleasant hazard.
Sometimes you have to force the issue. Things won't change on their own. And I think their relationship will survive a frank discussion on sex.