I fucking blew it. I fucking blew it. I fucking blew it.
There was this girl I liked, I liked her for 3 months. She was the one, we both had same interests and same looks and everything but I blew it. Fucking blew it. She doesn't know me at all and I don't know her. I basically told myself if I comb my hair back and look good chick's will be all over me but no my brain. That's not how it fucking works, and I just now realized that. We talked for a little bit for the first time and I straight up asked her if she'd like to do something sometime and she said I currently have a boyfriend now, sorry. Then, on top of that, I fucking said Ahh bummer. This fucking shit right here. I am pretty sure she is in a shit relationship and I also kinda knew she had a boyfriend but didn't know for fucking sure. I fucking blew it guys. I could've talked to her and been her friend but no I just had to fucking blow it. Fucking blew it. Fuck.
Just to clarify: I meant be her friend first and then ask her so I don't come off as needy and it'd give her a chance to have her feel the same I feel about her... I just fucking blew it. I don't know how to deal with it anymore..
Cause my dumbass followed the exact advice someone gave me on the internet. No one knew how much I really liked her I guess. She was my fucking soul mate and the one and now she probably just sees me as a player asking girls out left and right.. Holy shit
>I fucking said ahh bummer
kek, dude I said the exact same thing to this girl that I was hoping to get with. Just yesterday she was practically on my dick. The only reason we didn't fuck was because She actually has a good relationship with her boyfriend.
first off, how old are you? Second realize that there are other girls. I've had around 5 girls who I thought were "the one," who I never ever hooked up with.
Just remain civil around her but don't be giving her rides to the airport.
my situation was a little different, first off you sound like you're in high school or something, whereas I'm a grown ass adult. Second, I asked her out within a week of meeting her. Third, I knew for sure that she was interested in me. Just don't be a spaz, play it cool, love yourself first.
welp, sorry to say this dude but you're fucked.
You got to act swiftly and with initiative. This girl isn't your soul mate, get over her and focus on yourself.
Read a book or something
sorry I should have clarified. we talked for a total of 2 1/2 hours. Just build rapport with her. If she really is your "soulmate" something will click. You might just realize that she is incredibly dull or not compatible with you at all.
She had a bf for like 3 months but Idk how to move on since she is all I can think about. My life has just been hooked onto her. I was hoping to make friends with her in case she breaks up I can be there for the rebound but she would fucking know about that so. Yep.. blew it
ok so you blew one page in the book that is your life. My advice, get drunk off of some good whiskey, listen to some Johnny Cash, read "Ham on Rye" by Bukowski, and enjoy the companionship of your male friends.
Also workout, you sound like a scrawny bitch. Start doing push ups every day.
I was always fucking ugly and dirty and shit. But ever since I fell for this girl I cleansed myself right the fuck up and I feel like a million dollars. It took me 3 fucking months to get out of NPD and actually realize that chicks will dig people who actually talk to them, and that's how relationships are formed. I figured Id just let my physical appearence do all the talking bit nope lmao. Idk, what do you guys think?
Actually I know I'm fucked but I also know her boyfriend is a piece of shit person that nobody likes.. I'm waiting for that big argument. And I can be her backup or some shit. Or what if she is flattered I asked her out straight up with confidence and is thinking about me right now like I'm thinking of her. Holy shit
But you don't want to talk to her, you want to date her.
You don't want to be her friend. It wouldn't have made you happy, you would've just clung to the chance that ONE Day...
So you got turned down. Big deal. It happens. The universe did not end. I'm sorry to hear you're hurting, but you are overreacting massively. Learn from the fact that you lived, and forge it into courage, so you can ask the next girl out sooner.