I've gone on two dates with this girl and I've fucked up every step of the way showing no sort of interest in her whatsoever. I'm horrible when it comes to romance and these kinds of things and both dates have essentially just been hanging out. Only sort of verbal interest I've shown is calling her pretty one time during the first date. Only touching there's been is when we saw a movie and she'd poke me with her elbow whenever something was happening, along with both hugs at the end cause I was too much of a pussy to kiss her.
I was thinking of just trying to talk to her and explain that I'm a autist when it comes to romance (not in those words obviously) and telling her that I'm very much interested in her, combined with holding her hand or putting my arm around her while I say this and going for a kiss at the end. Is this a good idea? Is there any chance left at something or have I solidified myself as just a friend?
>>16781468
Yeah, go ahead and explain yourself, but don't go for a kiss at the end of a spaghetti dropping. Let her process it and decide whether or not she wants to deal with a clusterfuck of a relationship before you try and force yourself on her. If you made it past date one, she's into you. If you can get her to sit down and watch you wallow in pocket spaghetti she probably wants to bang anyway. Go for it.
>>16781482
Thanks for the advice. I'm not used to putting things out there but I'm gonna have to learn one of these days.