I've been seeing this guy for about three months casually. We really like each other and things are generally going okay.
The problem is that he keeps asking to make things official. I've told him I'm not seeing anyone else and the boyfriend/girlfriend label just makes me feel really dodgy (just got out of a long relationship).
He usually seems fine with it, but every once in a while he'll text me asking why I don't want to date him. He gets very upset and is generally inconsolable. The next day he apologizes and says he's fine. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Should I stop seeing him? We get along so well but I feel like he's looking for something much more serious than I am and I feel like I'm just hurting him. Every time I ask his opinion he swears he's fine just because he doesn't want to end things.
Shameless bump.
Alright, one more time before I give up.
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You're hurting him. Let him move on and find someone that can give him what he needs.
His heart has wings but nowhere to roost.