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My long-distance boyfriend won't cam with me anymore.
We used to regularly. It was nice not only for sexual release but to be "intimate" with each other when distance made it not possible. Met up for the second time in September. Since then it declined, and stopped entirely a month later. He says ever since meeting up, camming has seemed inadequate, so he'd rather just use porn as it isn't worth the effort anymore to cam with me. I'll send him nudes, he'll compliment me but change the subject. Or I'll bring up something in conversation and it gets completely ignored. But he still finds me more attractive than when we first met. He's never sugarcoats anything, so I know he isn't lying about that.

I've been unable to visit him for medical/family reasons since September. It wasn't fair to him - I'd tell him I could go in a couple weeks, then it'd be prolonged again. But we went for 7 months not meeting the first time and everything was fine. I feel rejected and miserable having to wait months to have any kind of sexual relationship with him - currently, I can't see him now for at least another month.
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What are you looking for advice on?
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>>16780714
What to do about the situation, I guess. How to get him to be sexual with me when I keep trying and he constantly brushes me off because it's "too much work".
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>>16780724
Well LDR aren't real relationships so it doesn't really matter
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>>16780909
Thanks for the help, normalfag
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>>16780703
This is going to sound cringy, but the possibility could be every time he sees you naked he's reminded that you're a long distance away and there's fuck all he can do. That can make him annoyed/agitated/upset, so he tries to avoid the scenario and press on.

Waiting 7 months the first time was okay for the first time as you hadnt met yet. But generally when you enjoy the time you had with them you crave more, which just makes the longing all the more harder.

You're going to have to make meeting up more of a priority if you want to make things smooth. Honestly, very few people are that busy they can't spare a day or two every month unless it's extremely long distance.
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>>16780938
fair enough, thank you anon
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