After having real sex I've realized how nbd it is. It actually broke my mind on the whole thing. It's like I could take it or leave it lol. Now I realize I probably want to have a relationship with someone that truly meshes with me. But I have some questions.
Sex is just a thing to do, are women likely to view it the same nonchalantly? I don't even care that much I could just as easily do anything else with her. But how often does random nsa sex happen between buddies?
Is spark mutual? Like of I really like a person and really get out of my shell and have a great time will it be a good bet that she's feeling the same level and need for connection?
Any insight at all? I'm kinda lost. Being desperate for sex gave me stuff to do, beating that I've got like nothing to chase.
>are women likely to view it the same nonchalantly?
Some do, some don't.
>But how often does random nsa sex happen between buddies?
It varies. I can't quite put into words how you feel out a person's willingness or attitude toward it. You just "know."
>Is spark mutual
It should be. Especially now that you've realized how sex isn't a big deal, and can therefore have patience to enjoy it with shared enthusiasm.
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Ty so much for replying.