Sexual /adv/ needed.
Hey /adv/ocates, I'm in kind of a strange one, I think.
Me and my girl are starting to touch each other building sexual tension, but no one seems to be able to make the other cum.
I've tried fingering and licking her and she tried blowing me. I was the only one that came, but only after jacking off myself.
We are both still virgins, so I bet it's just inexperience.
Any tips for both ends?
Girls can be harder to get off than guys. Try working her clit.
There is nothing wrong with needing to jack it to finish.
Move at whatever speed you need to and talk about what you each like. I can't tell you what gets your gf off only she can.
It's the concept issue. Everyone deals with them at some point.
Finding something sexy and being able to get off from it are 2 different things. It's Normal you just need to experiment and find what gets you off.
I think bondage is sexy. But it's uncomfortable and I could never get off on it. Stuff like that.
Watch this video:
Also, it's easy to make a girl cum even without eating her pussy.
First, get her really turned on. Tease the shit out of her, don't go for her clit/vag right away. kiss her neck, her breasts, make out, etc.
After 5-10 minutes of foreplay, she should be really wet.
If you want to make her cum without licking her, just do this:
Spit in your hand and place it flat on her vagina. Then slowly start rubbing up and down her whole vagina/clit area with your fingers and palm. Let her labia slide in between her fingers. Just do this rubbing motion with different variations until she cums. Kiss her nick and suck her breasts while you do this and she'll cum pretty fast.
When she says "yeah" or "don't stop" or "right there" LISTEN. Do not change what you're doing if she's showing signs of enjoyment.
When she's borderline orgasming, do not change. Repeat exactly what you're doing with more intensity and pressure until she cums. Then just keep your hand still on her vagina until she relaxes.
Remember, use shit loads of spit/lube/coconut oil. Grapeseed oil is great lube too.
Never rub a dry pussy. It will chafe for days.
It takes time and practice. When I first got with my bf I wasn't able to make him come with a blowjob, now I'm super rad at sucking dick. And yeah, girls can be tricky, I have trouble coming sometimes. Just find out what you both like, do lots of foreplay and take it slow. Orgasm doesn't have to be the finish line, you'll just end up stressing out if you think of it that way, just enjoy yourselves and find what works.