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How to get rid of a crush and stop being infatuated? It's a stupid annoying feel and its ruining my comfy apathy.
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>>16778299
I'm in the same shoes as you are,
I've tried to cut contact, i.e blocking them, but i always end up getting back like a runaway dog. I've also tried quarreling with the person said, didn't work out. It's so damn distracting, and i feel as a much weaker person when i'm in love.
Sorry no advice.
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>>16778299
>>16778784

>find another gril you beta xD

That's the only answer you'll ever get here
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>>16778299
Meditate on the thought that girls come and go. There are lots of them and since it's only a crush, it's not like you're passing up the one and only. Might be a can of worms instead.

Or just ask her out and hit your apathetic rock bottom cold turkey.

TL;DR; Focus on all the other pretty girls.
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>>16778299
Same boat as you OP, I was fine when I had accepted I had given up on love. Then this girl starts giving me attention and fucked up my comfy. She doesn't see me the same way I do and it sucks.

I have come to terms with her never loving me but I have kind of relapsed on my suicidal thoughts and pessimistic thinking. I'm not sure if I would have rather never talking to her in the first place to avoid these feels.

>find another girl
I rarely meet new people, let alone girls.
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Stop interacting with your crush. Then take all the fantasies you have about how life would be with them and live that life with someone else instead.
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>>16779447
that's a nice checklist
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