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I'm lonely a lot and unlovable
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Sometimes I end up meeting strangers for sex and it's fun but then they leave and I feel sad. Is this what life is supposed to be?
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>>16777592
this is why a lot of people get into relationships

careful they're a lot of work and get dull after a year or so. then you'll breakup and "chase the dragon" again
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>>16777613
I've been single for a decade now and it's getting old. Pretty sure at this point I'll die alone
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>>16777619
Asl?
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>>16777661
30 mtf
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>>16777674
aannnnnd that's why

let me guess you're a dude trying to pick up straight guys by posing as a woman?

the weird thing about the world is that straight guys like actual girls. here's an analogy; if I buy a lamborghini, I want an actual lamborghini, not a civic that's been modified to look like a lambo
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>>16777592
Me too, mate. Army. Going to neck myself when I discharge. Probably in my late 30's, early 40's.
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>>16777680
Great. Thank you for the analogy.
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>>16777674
Ever consider finding gay guys that actually want a relationship?
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>>16777691
so the bigger question is why don't you just go for gay guys? since you're a guy that likes guys
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>>16777680
On that analogy. If the civic thats been modified enough to actually look like a lambo is cheap enough plenty of men will glady have the looks and the reliability and gas mileage of the civic. Pretty shity analogy desu senpai.
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>>16777697
I'd like an answer to this.
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>>16777694
If we're attracted to each other that seems fine. I'd want a "straight acting" guy though. The bigger question is how to find one. Have no idea.

>>16777697
What does it mean to "go for" anyone? I don't understand any of this. I'm not like constantly harassing straight guys like you seem to think. And the sexuality of a potential partner doesn't matter except when it comes to me. Straight guys have fucked me before so I kind of assume that's where I'll find the most success but who knows.
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>>16777697
Also I'm not a guy. Not that it should matter but I don't like being called a guy.
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>>16777717
Do you consider yourself an effemenite male?.
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>>16777727
No. I'm a woman.
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>>16777711
Well in regards to the straight guys fucking you, they were probably experimenting with bicuriosity. As for leaving they realized they either are ashamed or confused. As for straight acting gay men I'd imagine bdsm websites like fetlife would be interested in having a twink boytoy to play with.
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>>16777731
With feminine penis?
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>>16777701
okay here's a non-analogy. I'm a straight male that wants a woman with a vagina, that might ultimately be the mother of my children. in this scenario I don't care if you're a 10/10 smoking hot mtf, you simply don't have the "parts" to fulfill my biological desires, and if we were to start a relationship, at some point i'm going to have to disclose to friends and family that you're in fact a dude posing as a woman.

so i'll ask again, if you're a dude that likes dudes, why not go for gay guys? women will all tell you the best men are gay as fuck
also my analogy was good you just added your own 2 cents. my point was if i'm paying 250k for a lambo, I want a lambo, not to spend 250k on a civic that looks like a lambo
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>>16777717
well theres plenty of black people that don't like being black, saying you'd like to be called white doesn't make it so

michael jackson was born and died a black man, despite his attempt to deceive people
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>>16777757
I'm pretty sure mj was an ayy lmao.
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>>16777749
Fair point. Although I'd give up kids for a 10/10 mtf that figured out their mental problems.
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>>16777717
a red head that dies his or her hair black is still a redhead, he/she is just attempting to mislead people
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>>16777717
You need to be true to yourself. If you have a y chromosome. You are a male. If you're attracted to manly men find one that wants a twink. But no one wants someone who mentally thinks they're something they're not.
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>>16777738
You think they felt ashamed for sleeping with me? That's horrible. I feel so much worse now.

Maybe men aren't even worth all this. Fetlife here is dead, or I probably would have found some guys there already.

>>16777740
I guess? The hormones shrunk my testicles some. And someday I want SRS just can't afford it now.

>>16777749
I'm not a dude. I live my life as a woman. But again I'm not opposed to trying a relationship with a guy who identifies as gay.

>>16777757
>>16777775
>>16777781
Just stop.
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>>16777785
really? because I can keep going if you'd like, i've got a ton of analogies
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>>16777785
whatever floats your boat, er I mean whatever fills your butthole
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>>16777785
>i'm not ugly, i'm an ugly person that identifies as attractive
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>>16777802
Your analogies manage to be both simple and ridiculous. They don't have anything to do with reality at all.

>>16777809
I thought guys were really into anal.
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>>16777785
As in they realized they weren't bisexual and wanted to distance themselves from you ashamed. By all means post a picture if you want reassurance about your appearance.
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>>16777818
here's something simple, straight guys like straight girls
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>>16777785
I'm not trying to aggrivate you just trying to get you to see why you're having troubles. Would you want a manly woman who doesn't acknowledge she/he was born a woman? You're past is part of who you are and to accept it is the start of completing yourself.
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>>16777826
I definitely don't want to post a pic here.

>>16777827
Straight guys like me enough to fuck me.

Guess nothing helpful is going to come out of the thread. Thanks 4chan
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>>16777839
My past is in the past, obviously. It may be a part of me but it's not nearly as important as right now.
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>>16777841
you're welcome

-4chan
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>>16777853
So right now you are narrowing your dating pool extremely. Clearly you want something long term and not just fucking but a relationship. As a straight male I'd say no one in my family or friends can even see you. For most people that right there would be a deal breaker. So if you want a relationship you'll need to find a trap lover that has no friends and family or that identifies as bisexual. Seems counter inclusive to the manly person you were looking for.
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>>16777868
It seems simpler to consider yourself an effeminate male that's gay for manly men. Won't need to get surgery and the men you talk to already know they're gay/bi but still enjoy the female form.
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>>16777701
this statement is not true.
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>>16777875
trans people don't think logically, that's why they're trans
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>>16777881
If it could pass as a lambo and get 35 mpg for 300k miles I'd drive it. I'd drive it for 300 k miles.
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>>16777904
>if it could

but it cant
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>>16777908
With enough time effort and money anything is possible.
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>>16777592
Taylor, is that you? This is your friend.

If it is, you don't have to continue this. Your life hurts, but you can make it better. I care about you and want you to be happy.

You've been isolated for a long time, but you can turn it around today. And you know how.

If not Taylor, then sorry. I'd suggest looking on 4chan, mtf s are a rarity and are fairly desirable here. It's high risk high reward, but with how sad you seem to be, you can't afford lower reward.
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>>16777952
Good job man now the internet knows Taylors a faggot.
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>>16777711
by straight acting what do you mean?
taking the masculine role? being the top?
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>>16778021
Someone who isn't stereotypically gay. Maybe lumberjack I think? Not op just guessing.
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