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So after my ex dumped me as harshly and coldly...
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So after my ex dumped me as harshly and coldly as possible, after 2 being together years, and then disappeared off the face of the earth, I'm now trying to get back into dating. It was my first relationship, so I'm still not so good at this shit. But I'm having some issues. First, there are like 10 girls in my surrounding vicinity, 7 of whom are very over weight, and trying to hide it.

Second, its near impossible to have a conversation with these girls. On any app/site, all the girls that even give me the time of day are so fucking snarky/defensive about everything you can't have a normal conversation with them. Some of them even have extreme princess complex's, and are vapid as fuck. I was relying on these apps to smooth out the process for me, but girls seem 1000x more interested in me in person, and aren't cunts about it. But, I've just never been able to make the connection in person, even with girls who express interest.

How in the hell does any reasonable dude land a date on these fucking apps/sites? Any advice on using these sites/apps is appreciated.

On a funny side note, some model tier looking gay dude added me on snapchat from okc, and then tried to convince me to let him blow me, and then got so desperate he offered me $40 to let him do it.
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>>16777195
You kinda sound like a big jerk. Try talking to girls like you would talk to someone you actually give a shit about.

Or, like you think they might like, and fake it till you make it.
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>>16777228
That's exactly what I do. I'm not being a jerk to these girls in any way, its like they've been tainted by getting hit up for nudes one too many times or something, and are super defensive, making it hard to talk to them without feeling like you're walking on eggshells.
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>>16777239
In what way are they defensive? What questions are you asking that could be worded to even provoke a defensive response?

Post some convos or something, that doesn't make sense.
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