Should I stand by my ideals and principles or ignore the red

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Should I stand by my ideals and principles or ignore the red flags?

Trying to make long stories short here:
>be normal type guy, last summer I broke up for good with ex, after 5 years (last year of that with some breaks, but always monogamous)
>had two one-night stands, made out with a couple other girls, but generally never play games or be an asshole
>basically I am of the rare non-dickhead species
>have clear principles in terms of watching out for red flags in girls, but through that really high standards

>big party with everyone from my uni, end up helping a girl to get home at 8am
>know her quite well, find her really attractive, but know that she had a boyfriend for years, had other guys during breaks with him, had crazy drug experiences in the past, generally a bit mental
>spend day with her, we get along really well (deep conversations, lots of cuddling) and she is actually what I never found in other girls in terms of being generally straight-forward
>she tells me she broke up with her boyfriend two days before this
>the first time we fuck she stops because of that, the next time its fine (though ripped/slipped-off condom issues)
>keep spending time with her, staying at each others places
>we are both not sure what this is
>I can really feel that she likes me a lot and she also says I am different from anyone she had before (in terms of being sincere, positive, and honest)

Today is the first night alone since Monday and I started thinking... I extremely enjoy the time with her, at the same time its a rollercoaster, she is very different in many ways, and there are several red flags. I don't even know what I am trying to say or ask, I am just overwhelmed by the situation...