Last night I got way too drunk and brought a guy home. We had unprotected sex. I don't know his history, and he got crazy obsessive after so I blocked him on Facebook. I have the implant so won't get pregnant but obviously I'm terrified of getting an std. I'm going to a gyno asap. One thing though - his smell has really hung around my genitals. It's pissing me off. It's a slightly sharp, tiny bit metallic, mostly musky smell. Is it likely to mean something bad? Why can't I get rid of it? I've had two showers.
Scent is tied to memory. It's probably not there, you're just remembering it. Of you're convinced it is there bring it up to your gyno.
You could also consult us by posting pics on /b/. If there's a problem we can tell you in a professional and courteous fashion.
As far as him spazzing about facebook, he's probably trying to figure out what he did wrong and it's driving him nuts.
We're insecure about sex and he probably thinks he fucked up or came to fast or hurt you or that you think he raped you
Doesn't realize you regret fucking him for reasons pertaining to you and not him. Send him a message that reads, "I was drunk, shouldn't have fucked you. You were fine, but this isn't going to continue."
I really hope you're right about the smell. Fingers crossed.
As for him freaking out on Facebook, it wasn't an insecurity thing. He wanted to meet me today for dinner, I told him pretty much what you told me to tell him and he started to tell me that he loved me, I was breaking his heart, that he was going to come to mine etc.
Yeah, I'm well aware. It was the first time I've ever brought someone home from a night out - it's normally not my thing at all, and I don't go out often - maybe once a month or less. I told him he needed to wear a condom, but I guess he was too drunk to listen or care.
Oh, you fucked a dateless virgin (or close enough). That sucks (speaking as a guy in his position a decade ago). A mature man might shrug it off and be grateful he got laid, no strings attached. Not so here.
To him, this was all his dreams come true, the first and definitive proof that someone loves him and he's going to take it hard.
Keep him blocked and avoid him if you can. Some of the people here will say that's overly harsh, but any contact with him at all is only going to make him think there's some hope there.