I am at this turning point in my life. I ended a 4 years long

>>16775963

The other day I ate some chocolate. I went on a date and she told me to call her tomorrow, then she made an excuse but said she would love to do something, she just can't atm and then blew me off again.


What should I do? How should I approach everything? Can someone tell me their past experiences?

Stop trying to make every single thing in your life go right.

You, and every other human being in the world, did something that ended up not going to plan, despite their best laid intentions.

Evaluate your own behavior, you're just anxious, do something to relax.

General advice. There is nothing wrong with failing, but you can never allow yourself to give up.

Typically, you should wait to start dating until you are stable emotionally, there is no magic time frame for this. Just wait until you feel okay about yourself and have accepted that the former relationship as run its course. Provided there was no abuse a good metric of this is when you no longer have negative feelings toward the ex.