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I've been seeing a girl for a couple of months and everything was going great until today. She's been feeling tired and worn out lately so at the behest of her mother, she went to get checked by a doctor for anemia. She called me afterwards and told me they prescribed her iron pills to see if it would help. Then she told me she didn't think she should be in a relationship because she was still hurting from her last one and didn't think it was fair to me so she wants to take some time to get herself straightened out.

I told her I understood and I appreciated her being honest with me. I have literally no reason to suspect she's lying about anything, but I can't keep old feelings from previous relationships that ended poorly from resurfacing.

What should I do?
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You should come to terms with the fact that the only truly worthwhile relationships are those between equally enthusiastic partners. When you're meant to be with someone, they'll be as enthusiastic about being with you as you are about being with them. That's not something which many people can offer. While that doesn't make them bad people in any way, it does make them poor choices for a significant other. They need time to learn honesty with themselves. It looks like your ex has taken the first step toward learning that. You should too.
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When a woman rejects a man, it's his duty to accept her choice and respect it. She has no obligation to give you a reason.

Accept it and move on. That's all you can do. It's for the best, it's what nature intended.
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>>16775833
>She has no obligation to give you a reason.

I never implied she did, and furthermore, she did give me a reason.

I feel like you're replying to the wrong thread.
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>>16775815
Damn that was tight advice, anon. Needed to hear that, pining after a girl I really like but don't think is reciprocating. Basically pussy meet pedestal.
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