Last weekend my girlfriend and I tried to have sex for the first time. Only problem was that I couldn't get it up for whatever reason. Now this weekend we had talked about doing it on Sunday and I haven't gotten off in a week. I want to be able to keep an erection so that we can try again, but at the same time I'm afraid I might be too sensitive and I would ejaculate too quickly. Anybody have any thoughts on the situation?
You should allow her to go down on you until you come. Preferably in the mouth. Then go down on her after the foreplay. Make her come. Should take about total 25 minutes. You should be ready by the end of 25 minutes marker.
Sex comes naturally unless you're a beta male who's penis knows doesnt deserve sex so it fails on you.
You're supposed to hangout with her and when you get a boner/turned on, kiss her etc then take her clothes off and fuck her. You just initiate, instead of being the beta boy you are "Ughhh, can you take your clothes off please"
classic virgin problem: NERVES
nerves put you in the "fight or flight" scenario, which makes it hard to maintain an erection. People having sex when an earthquake happens don't just keep going, they run and hide. Can't do that so well with an erection.
Solution: tell your GF you're not going to fuck this time, just mess around and wherever it goes, it goes. Then a shitload of foreplay - the important thing is to have fun!- and she'll be wet, and just ... let it happen. It's meant to happen, our bodies work that way.
think of /adv/ when you're inside her a woman for the first time, and thank us