Soo tomorrow I have my first date with a girl I met on tinder. We are going out for lunch. Now I haven't been on a date in about 3 years and honestly forget what its like. any advice welcome
It's going to fucking suck honestly; tinder sucks and you'll likely wind up with someone so fucking akward you want to punch them in the face, someone so fucking desperate they'll say they love you before even meeting you in person, someone so fucking retarded that you want to rufie them just so you can get out of there, or someone so fat and ugly that you want to kill yourself for even considering them.
Let dates happen organically, if you don't get out much, you'll fail dates.
Tinder is intimidating, and I feel people treat it like a game.
I'm far too naive and fragile for that. Also, I'm not a juggler- I date one person at a time, even if it's not serious or 'exclusive' yet. Jesus the whole thing makes me just... sigh. I have friends on it and they regularly say shit like 'it's a war out here man....'
Expect the worst, hope for the best.
There's a reason why I refuse to use Tinder, even though I'm a girl and we tend to get shit tons of messages on there. The people who use it either have a problem getting dates in real life, which makes me question what's wrong with their personality and/or appearance, or they're just looking to fuck. Which in that case if that is what you are also looking for it's still shit because you don't know if the other person is a total Tinder slut who's fucked 100s of people and has herpes. Tinder just makes you look desperate in general, and the only context I think it would look ok to use it is if you're on holiday overseas, don't know anyone and are just looking for a 1 night dinner date or something. But it'd probably end shitty anyway.