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What do you do when having a crush on someone is depressing you?

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What do you do when having a crush on someone is depressing you?

I already am depressed enough before, and now this snuck up on me. It kind of made me realize I don't even really want to be in a relationship because I'm a terrible girlfriend, and I think I'm scared of commitment.

But I have a huge crush on someone at work and I like talking to him a lot. I always want to just ignore him but he usually comes up and talks to me anyway . I've talked to him on Facebook a few times too, and there's some nights where I want to send him a message asking like so how are you doing but fuck no I shouldn't. I sometimes have a feeling he likes me too but there's no way actually

I need this to die, he mostly works days, should I just request to work at night?

>then Monday we have to carpool together to a training thing an hour away
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>>16773523
ask him out

get upset when he rejects you and get over it in a few months

or be temporarily happy if he says yes.
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in china there is saying 乘风破浪 means ride the waves and break the winds. you know what must do.
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>>16773556
surf and fart?
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>>16773555
I've honestly thought of getting a new job then asking him out

I'm not worried about omg rejection I more worried about shit being weird at work cause of it, or we date and I blow the relationship up after 3 months and then work is even worse

But the new job I was looking at that I might move onto eventually is probably going to require me to move, and it's like 35-45 minutes away.

But I guess I have put serious thought into asking if he wanted to do anything after our little work trip, like saying "Ya know you wanna go shooting together on a day this week then get dinner?"
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>>16773560
no i mean ride wind and break waves. be brave. no fart
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>>16773556
新年快乐小骚年

>>16773523
Honestly if he's anywhere near your aesthetic level just go for it. It's always pleasant when the girl shows enough interest to take initiation.

More importantly, depression is a sign that you have to change something in your life. Maybe asking him out is a good first step.
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>>16774094
Yeah that's another thing too. I mean I have short hair and I like it. Girls at work always say I look so pretty or whatever. But you know that's just girls being girls. Like I'm the one on the right.

I sometimes wonder if he's interested in me though. He seems to talk to me a lot at work, even when I'm half trying to ignore him he still finds me and bullshits with me.
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