What do you do when having a crush on someone is depressing you?
I already am depressed enough before, and now this snuck up on me. It kind of made me realize I don't even really want to be in a relationship because I'm a terrible girlfriend, and I think I'm scared of commitment.
But I have a huge crush on someone at work and I like talking to him a lot. I always want to just ignore him but he usually comes up and talks to me anyway . I've talked to him on Facebook a few times too, and there's some nights where I want to send him a message asking like so how are you doing but fuck no I shouldn't. I sometimes have a feeling he likes me too but there's no way actually
I need this to die, he mostly works days, should I just request to work at night?
>then Monday we have to carpool together to a training thing an hour away
I've honestly thought of getting a new job then asking him out
I'm not worried about omg rejection I more worried about shit being weird at work cause of it, or we date and I blow the relationship up after 3 months and then work is even worse
But the new job I was looking at that I might move onto eventually is probably going to require me to move, and it's like 35-45 minutes away.
But I guess I have put serious thought into asking if he wanted to do anything after our little work trip, like saying "Ya know you wanna go shooting together on a day this week then get dinner?"
Honestly if he's anywhere near your aesthetic level just go for it. It's always pleasant when the girl shows enough interest to take initiation.
More importantly, depression is a sign that you have to change something in your life. Maybe asking him out is a good first step.
Yeah that's another thing too. I mean I have short hair and I like it. Girls at work always say I look so pretty or whatever. But you know that's just girls being girls. Like I'm the one on the right.
I sometimes wonder if he's interested in me though. He seems to talk to me a lot at work, even when I'm half trying to ignore him he still finds me and bullshits with me.