I have a long term GF that i love very much. Shes supportive and beautiful. She takes the pill and we fuck every night. Her vagina isnt the absolute greatest but its still pretty amazing due to the fact that I bust inside her every night. But every chance I get I call an escort. For some reason, calling an escort is twice as exciting even though I have to be protected. Am I wrong? I often worry about Karma but its very confidential and its not like i ask for the GFE. My woman is out of town right now and I really want to call this escort but for some reason my conscious is weighing on me. Should I? Its been 4 days. halp /adv/
>I really want to call this escort but for some reason my conscious is weighing on me.
That would be because you're cheating. And not even for love, but for mere lulz. Your conscience is right.
It's cheating if she doesn't know about a physical or emotional relationship you are having. Why can't you let her make her own decisions about whether she wants to be with you or not.
Also, paying for sex lol. Fucking loser.
Can I fuck your gf then? I don't love her.
>Also, paying for sex lol. Fucking loser.
Lame but smart.
Id rather pay for sex then waste time to lie to a chick and have her believe that I care or w.e. While running the risk of my girl finding out. paying for sex eliminates all that plus its alot cheaper than taking another bitch out while still spending money on GF.
youre full of shit.
Do you really think humans were made for monogamy? We are animals. We were born to fuck. Why does every vagina feel different? why do males have different sizes? We are SUPPOSE to experience different things.
And whats wrong with paying for a service? Dont you get haircuts? Dont you get your oil changed? Dont you get massages? Dont you go out to eat? Im paying for the convenience of not having to cook my own meals or wank my on dick!
Anon, this is a battle you won't win. People on this board don't understand sense. You will be shamed for paying for sex regardless of your reasoning as people are too afraid to accept that their worldview might be wrong. I'd suggest not trying to justify it to these plebs and just do you. Best of luck, anon.
>Waste time lying to a chick
>make her believe that I care
But that's exactly what you're doing to your gf. Why do you even want a gf anyway? You make it sound like all you care about is sex, and that paying for sex is your preference route.
I grow my hair long, I don't have a car, I prefer to cook at home and I have never once paid for a massage. I have more important things to save my money for than fleeting pleasures.
No that is not what im doing. I DONT want to do that is the purpose. Thats why I pay for it instead of wasting another persons time and wasting my money. Paying for it, both parties get what they want. Moron. I have a GF cus shes awesome and we are in love but that doesnt mean I dont wnt to experience other orifices. Pay for it means I dont cheat with my heart. Just my cock. andwhat she doesnt know wont hurt her.
Youre right. But im just killing time. But great way to look at it anon. thanks
Also OP when are you going to stop avoiding these posts and answer like a man? Would you care if she fucked a bunch of other guys? Let's say they were male prostitutes and she said she didn't love them either. You'd be fine with it right?
Thats pretty specific for 5 words. You must be a wizard or just a cunt.
Paying for sex is like paying for fast food. You know you shouldnt because you have food at home but that new Crunchwrap look absolutely amazing. Plus you can eat it in the car and no one will know! :)
inb4 fat fuck. i have a very fast metabolism. I should be fat but nah
>Let's say they were male prostitutes
There are male prostitutes but very little compared to females and most of them fuck other guys.
No i would not be cool with it obviously. Just like my girl wouldnt be cool wiht me fucking other chicks. That is a dumb question.
Guys obviously think with their cocks 40% of the time when it comes to women. Thats why escorts exploit them to make money.
Your food analogy is only another representation of your throwaway lifestyle. If you think the finest things in life are fast food and hookers you will have a very hollow look in your eyes on your death bed
So if you're not cool with it why would you do it anyway? There is a fucking wall in your mind. There is a direct correlation there. If you don't treat your girlfriend like you would like to be treated then how can you have any respect for her at all? She is with you by choice, not because she has to be. You don't tell her because you know what you're doing is wrong.
Paying for sex and fucking girls is all fine when your single I'm or in a polygamous relationship. But you're not,at least your gf doesn't think so. She thinks you are exclusive. Which is not true, you know it's not true. You're lying to her face.
>Faggots actually believe this
I'll be on my death bed (assuming I don't die somewhere else) and thinking back about that hot hooker I got to bang when I was young and missing those times. Life's too fucking short for your bullshit.
Didnt say wht i was doing is right. But who is to say what is right and whats not? just because there is a standard or magic rule we all follow? Is it a matter of ethics or a matter of following instinct to mate with something new once in a while? If anything it has helped my relationship. If it wasnt for escorts id get bored and break up just to fuck another girl. Then id eventually crawl back to her. Fuck that.
I hate that saying, cant have your cake and eat it too.
Thats the point of having cake... to eat it.
>I'd have to break up and crawl back to her
>it would be her fault not mine
Lol so all you're saying is you can't be held responsible for your own actions. Be a man and claim accountability. You are literally saying you don't have control over your own life, how do you call yourself a man.
Dont cover yourself with this relativity. It doesnt work this way. It is wrong because it hurts the other person, restricts her freedom to know and choose (because you are lying to her and thus she cannot truly decide about your relationship). This is the standard all cultures from the beggining of time followed (at least to those they considered equal humans). You have to choose or you are doing wrong, there is no "magic" involed in that.
Because it was implied. Greentexting is for implications, welcome to 4chan.
Even in his OP he asks if he should call a hookers after 4 days, as though he were incapable of resisting. He let's his dick lead his life, he has no control over himself. Real men can spy a goal to reach from decades off and work towards it. OP can't even go a week without giving in to his dick. Weak mind.
I bet she's probably fucking someone else right now. You'll tell us she wouldn't because she loves you and she's so sweet. But that's exactly what you're telling us she thinks of you, so you know it's more than likely.
Whos to say it doesnt work that way? And whos being hurt? No one is hurt because of the confidentiality between the two parties. And theres nothing restricting her freedom. Freedom is an illusion! It always has been. and that theory applies to your statement. She free to do what she wants whether she knows or doesnt. She could be cheating on me right now. But why would i live my life wondering if im being cheated on? If she starts treating me diff then suspicion would arise but she doesnt. And i dont give her a reason to raise suspicion with me. So where is the hurt? We are happy as ever. Im doing what I want and she does what she wants. As long as the feeling we have for each other doesnt change and we RESPECT* each other, we will be happy.
Yes respect. I know what you are going to say. But respect is knowing that someone is fat and gross but not throwing in their face. Respect is doing everything a good BF does and doing all his dirt on the low without hurting. Everyone has dirt. Luckily mine is only experiencing other vaginas and not something harsh.
But you have your opinion and I have mine.
Whatever dude. We've given you your advice. Don't come crying back to us when she dumps your cheating ass. Although I'm sure you'll find another way to externalize the blame again.
>Do you really think humans were made for monogamy?
>We are animals. We were born to fuck.
Many animals are wired for monogamy. The more general order of primates runs the whole gamut, of course. But while some of our closest evolutionary ancestors (like the famously hypersexual bonobo ape) are not nonogamous, the very closest ones are. Why, then, is it so far-fetched that we are too?
>Why does every vagina feel different? why do males have different sizes? We are SUPPOSE to experience different things.
Come on, man, even the militant polyamorists can argue their position better than that. Hell; even most redpillers can argue better than that. If all you've got is crass FOMO and poor impulse control, then I see no reason to respect your position.
You're just a manchild, playing at sex before he's ready. And the hell of it is, you know it. Your conscience would not be bugging you like this otherwise.
>Freedom is an illusion!
Yes, yes it is. Because your girlfriend has a legitimate need-to-know about her partner's sexual activities, and you are withholding necessary information. She is not free, because she is not informed, and you are keeping her that way because you know all too well what would happen otherwise.
Greentexting is for quoting. Not to make up your own theory based on what you read. Thats why when you highlight and copy, it appears when you reply before you even paste.
But youre right, I do let my dick lead at times. And I am incapable of resisting. but i plan on resisting today. Thanks Anons for your input. I will not be calling escorts. What im doing is wrong. But im wrong based on todays societies standards. Even though what I WANT to do is completely natural. HOW i get is the wrong part.
Cheating was probably made up by some greedy cunt
Btw. Graduated from UCLA with a Geotechnical Engineering degree two years ago at the age of 29 while selling real estate. If thats not goals then idk what is.