Here's my situation:
> live with overbearing Asian parents
> they want me to have Asian husband and Asian grandchildren
> I have white boyfriend and they disapprove and say he's trash and will only fuck and dump me
> He's a nice guy, and we didn't even have that much sex, but the relationship ends after 6 months
> I'm absolutely heartbroken
> can't tell parents because they will say we told you so and will immediately start setting me up with Asian men
> I will need at minimum 3 months to get over my heartbreak, maybe 6
> I can't cry and be sad in the house because they'll know the relationship is over
> can't spend Fridays and Saturdays in the house because they'll figure it out
Where can I go on Friday and Saturday nights where I can feel sad and cry and not look ridiculous? Afterwards, I should be able to dry my tears and then go home to my parents and say, "hehe I had such a great time with boyfriend! See, white people aren't so bad ^_^"
I've been to some pubs but they are brightly lit and cheery places
Depending on where you live. I live in Santa Monica You can normally do what you want at the beach at night. Just go lay down and cry in the sand. 10 years from now you'll be a doctor and you'll be rich and have no memory of his existence
They were right, but emotionally, I can't jump into a new relationship right now. I can't take the parade of men. I just want to mourn and be alone for a bit
My ex wasn't a bad person, we must weren't a good fit for each other
Still, it sounds like you're going through a whole lot of trouble to not be yourself and bending over backwards to avoid your parents' fascist relationship policies...have you ever considered moving out?
I could, I have about 30k in savings. But it would be a huge expense just so I could have a bit of temporary privacy. My plan is once my heart has healed, I can honestly tell my parents, "he broke up with me! AND I'm totally over it! I'm ready to date Asian guys now!"
wow, its unbelievable how insensitive parents are about certain things...I was going to say "your parents" but actually I see parallels between this and the way most people relate to their folks. Being alone is pretty easy, go watch sad movies in the theatre and eat too much popcorn or something
Why don't you just say that you broke up with him or that the decision to break up was mutual due to argument or differences. Then just be honest that you're not ready for relationship any time soon as you still care for him and just need time to get over him.
Then if they try to set you up with some dudes just get angry and furious about it and throw a tantrum or two because they fail to listen to you. I find it downright selfish and disrespectful for parents to choose the future for their children, children should grow up and decide themselves how they will live their lives, what career they choose and who they fall in love with.
Ohhhhhh movies, that is very private. Good idea. I can even see the Good Dinosaur.
Thanks, that would work if my parents were reasonable people. That approach would only buy me a week of mourning time.
>ready to date Asian bois
Lol, once you Asian chicks go White, nothing else seems right.