For valentine's day I want to tell my best friend that I love her. It would jeapordize everything. Should I do it?
should you take a damn chance? absolutely. go for it, you fuck. you will regret what you didnt do far mor keenly than what you messed up.
just dont do it on valentines ffs theres adorably cheesy & then theres just a bad idea
Because if you really feel that way you should not be planning to wait even 10 days to drop it.
And because valentines day is "lighthearted spend some time with your So and buy some cheap shit day"not "make wholehearted and potentially friendship ruining declarations day". You are giving it too much credit
Giving it a date might make it less scary, but honestly, if you feel that way the right thing to do is to go ahead and say it next chance you get even if it is scary
Do it. On valentines day, yes. Very romantic. Not without pressure I'm sure - I was secretly hoping my best, longest male friend would do the same. we have a long standing association with the day oddly anyway, and could have something planned together, it's a great start! Why jeopardy though?
You should (but probably before or after V-Day). Though be prepared to cut her out of your life (or her cut you out of her life) if she doesn't reciprocate. Since being, or just staying, friends after that point will be... well... pure hell in most scenarios.