How do I tell this girl I've been seeing that I like her?
We had a couple of dates but I was too scared to make a move. Currently we're texting less and less and don't see each other that often anymore.
I kinda fucked up by not making a move, I should have kissed her the other night we went to a bar.
How do I do it? I am really bad at this.
How to I say it? I have literelly no clue. I have to be careful, since I didnt make a move so far and it might overwhelm her when I suddenly confess that I want her.
How would you act if you were me?
It's not about asking her out.
I already did. We had a couple dates.
The problem is that because I did nothing she thinks im either not interested or too cowardly.
My question is how do i go from here?
Overwhelming doesn't mean not reciprocated though. Do it. Life is too short. If you don't have real feelings though, don't bother. I guess you do though. Kiss her. She can turn it down if she wants. She won't. She's already accepted your dates long enough to come back for more
Alright so we texted and she mentioned there is a new cafe / some kind of bakery store in the local mall. I told her to let me know should she want to have some coffee+cake. She immediately said yes and asked when.
So yeah I am seeing her this weekend. Thats good.
Okay so here is the plan. We go there, have some coffee and talk and when we're done I'll tell her something like "I'm really not good at this stuff but Ive been thinking a lot about you lately, so go out with me again, on a real date"
Or something like that.
Sounds good? I really can't tell anymore.
You can't salvage this by telling you like her. If you had a couple of dates but didn't even kiss... the signs are bad. You should kiss after the first, or at the latest second date. After a few dates, if you are not having sex, you should at least be doing some physical flirting.
Treat it as a learning experience and move on. Next time move faster.
Yes, at this point you have nothing to lose. Just saying that telling a girl you like her is a bad thing to do in general unless you are already in a relationship. If you haven't even kissed, well, that will likely raise red flags with her and make you look insecure.
Go for it anyway. It sounds like there's no real other options anyway. It's not like it can make it worse.
>We had a couple of dates but I was too scared to make a move. Currently we're texting less and less and don't see each other that often anymore.
Yeah you fucked up OP, doesn't really seem like you have a chance anymore.