So I sucked this trans girls dick maybe six or seven years ago.
>be a few months ago, taking some girl to the movies when she clearly doesn't want to fuck me.
>drink at a bar before she arrives at the theatre, get shitty drunk then run into Tran friend.
>we hung out like twice just smoking, drinking or driving around. Nothing close really, when she would nudge me I would keep my distance.
Fast forward to last night, we go sledding. Lots of fun, acting like kids. She asks for kiss.
Me:I don't want to be sexual with anyone right now.
Her:you lead me on, muh teased feelings.
Me:its not the right time, I am bad about handling myself sexually so I want to try being abstinent for a while.
Well she tackled me, and tried wrestling me in the snow a few times without warning (she owns a gun but it was in her car at the time) I wont get pinned and she runs out of breath. We go to eat bar food and drink then end the night.
/adv/, my question is two part. First, even if I was slightly leading her on isn't the whole feminist anti rape thing about getting verbal consent and talking to the person you're interested in before physically acting upon anything? Were she to ask for my intentions they would've always been just for friendship.
Second, was I wrong for giving her the excuse that I gave? I do want a gf and im kind of trying to find one, I'm just not that attracted to her body that much and our personalities definitely clash hard... I should've said something along those lines..
You had sex with her, then denied her any further. This is a prime example of male privilege in patriarchys. She clearly has feelings for you which you just used for your own good, i.e. raping her. I hope she gets your sorry ass to court.
It was only oral sex and it was the better half of a decade ago. I see your sarcasm but I don't see how I lead her on in a legitimate way. I mean I complimented her appearance once or twice but that was to be nice. I'd do that for my sister you know?
Well, you can view it that way. On a serious note, I suggest you keep in mind her attitude towards you. That means, if you feel like she's falling for you and you are not, don't compliment her, don't do anything that might imply you fall for her too.
I can clearly see the point of saying "Oh but I was just being nice, it's her fault for thinking that means more", as I felt that exact way too. I guess I'd probably act the same again, because I'm an asshole. But then again I can very well understand why girls in that position would feel lead on. Most dudes would feel the same, especially when inexperienced.
Good job on not falling for my bait. Guess I have to work on that or move on to /pol/ or back to /b/.
No b8 m8 just a part of my past trying to peg me in the ass. I stopped experimenting with cocks of all genders less than a year after me and this girl fooled around. Years later does she really think it would just be an instant restart into what we were doing?
You sound nervous as fuck because he has a dick and is doing girly things, when "she" wrestled you I have the feeling you were afraid you were gonna get raped. Don't go with "her" just because "she" is easy.
>being afraid of guns
you're more irrational than a tranny
Knee-grow pleeze. My whole family has guns. If anything I was "scared" of what weapons she had on her, plus her newfound motive to use them on your humble OP. Like I said the gun was in the car, we were in the woods alone.
She identifies as a female, I'm able to respect her wishes in that regard but I don't see how, as someone who identifies as a woman, she isn't more sympathetic to the rape undertones she brought on.