Okay gf has trust issues with me since I started talking to a girl after we broke up before, we are together now.
>Afterwork I say I am going to her house
>She says to save gas so we can go more places Friday
>Sounds like a good idea to me so I head home (Take note I have been over her house every single day since we got back together 2 weeks straight including this day)
>I get home and text her
>she gives Short "no" responses
>I text her more
>I call her 3 times
>I text some more
>I fall asleep
>Text her in the mornig, nothing
>I go to her house before work
>She doesn't let me in and is mad that I gave up trying to get a hold of her and basically says I had a reason(cheating) for wanting to be home.
It's afterwork now and I am waiting for her to get home, I need help on how to approach this.
So she's mad when it was obvious she didn't want to talk to you for some stupid reason? Ask her why she began with the short texts then went to ignoring you. And ask how you not wanting to waste your time blowing up her phone when she didn't want to talk? Because you fell asleep you cheated. Lol
This is it for me though. We are either talking this through tonight or never again. When I wait to solve things she blames me even more for "ignoring her when she is sad" so this is it, I am here for her and if she doesn't think this is important enough then I know what I have to do.
I think it's at least worth talking about and if things go south I won't have to see either ever again at least I will have in my mind that I tried. And waiting infront of their house is actually expected of me by both of them it's a way of showing "I care"
>since we got back together
Automatically you're both idiots.
>I text her more
That was wrong. Don't try forcing people to treat you correctly. Just find people who do it on their own.
>mad that I gave up trying to get a hold of her
You're never going to grow out of this retardation of yours if you stick around her. You put up with all the wrong shit.
Doesn't matter, trust in the relationship is completely broken. You didn't cheat but you essentially have the type of relationship where you cheated and got back together. It's hard to build trust back up. Also taking breaks or breaking up and getting back together is a bad sign. Doesn't help with trust either.
18 it was the feeling of not wanting to lose her and pitying her because of her legit psychological and physical illnesses and love. We do have happy times but it switches to unhappy too quick. Also she is my first girlfriend and it's been a year.
It is worth talking about. But if you're expected to make all the effort and apologies for something, that seems kind of one sided. Leave and go quiet. Don't spread bullshit, just button up. If she cares at all, she'll seek you out to talk.
When we broke up and after she found out I was talking to another girl (while broken up) I didn't call or text her, she seeked me out first because she knows no one else would put up with her except me. She is probably going to send me a long angry text for not being at her house but whatever.
Completely ignore the stuff about you giving up too easily, the only point you should have looked at was her getting mad because you did something she asked you to (save gas). It sounds like this is a common thing.
Why do you want to be with someone like that? Just break up with her and then stop replying. Don't be mean to her just say "hey let's not talk while we get over each other" and then stop replying. If you're mean then she will be justified in her mind for treating you badly. If you reply you're just stringing both of you along. Good luck OP