>Girlfriend tends to want to be left alone when she's in a bad mood about something
>Whenever this happens I feel crazy anxious because I assume she's mad at me about something (even though she usually isn't)
What do I do about this?
My hobbies don't take my mind off it.
I just wish she'd communicate what's going on with me better. Sometimes she'll act like somethings off/she's annoyed by me talking to her, then she'll just randomly say "can you just leave me alone" and whenever I ask why or what's going on she'll either ignore me or keep saying "just leave me alone".
Actually I think she's just crazy stressed about college applications. All her friends have heard back from their colleges and she hasn't heard back from the college she really wants to go to and she feels like its a sign she didn't get in. It's causing her to feel panicked and anxious. I think that's why she wants to be left alone.
you can't leave her alone without getting anxious and she doesn't seem to cooperate with you (by ignoring you)
you won't be able to change her
do exactly what she said, leave her alone and break up if necessary
>"It makes me crazy anxious when you do this, please tell me whats going on"
>"I told you to leave me alone, can't you do this one thing?"
>"Yes, but it makes me crazy anxious and paranoid and you know that. Why do you keep doing this? Do you not care about how I feel about this?"
>"Leave me alone"
WHY THE FUCK CAN'T FUCKING WOMEN JUST NOT BE FUCKING BITCHES ABOUT EVERYTHING HOLY FUCL
>But you need to tell ME why you're not talking to ME when you want to be left alone. Why don't you care how it's making ME feel?
She probably wants to be left alone when she's upset because otherwise it'd turn into her needing to comfort you and explain that it isn't your fault.
Seems pretty clear that you should just leave her alone during these times. Maybe compare what she does here to what she does when it turns out that she actually is angry at you.