I've only eaten out one gf in the past once, and it was absolutely disgusting. So gross that I've been put off doing it ever since. I'm with a girl I really like now though and want to try again because I'd be happy to make her feel really good. I'm worried it's going to be so nasty that it's gag inducing again. So two things in this thread:
1) Please post any tips/advice on how to eat out a nasty pussy convincingly or how to make it less nasty
2) Please post any advice on giving a girl good oral
1) The only thing I can think of is being horny as fuck so that offsets the whole nasty factor, it's all mind games, you have to kind of like getting down and dirty
2) Simultaneously lick the clit and do a "come here" motion with your middle and index finger inside her pussy. Also DO NOT wander the fuck off from the clit with your tongue. It's quite literally the only area where licking feels like anything at all.
You REALLY need to make the whole thing feel passionate and make it seem you're eager to do it, being horny as fuck yourself is the easiest way. Keep repeating the things mentioned above and you should feel the muscles inside the pussy tighten the grip on your fingers. You REALLY do feel the grip when the girl is actually getting pleasure out of it. Continue till she cums, profit.
Good luck :)
To be frank, Oral is nasty. However, if she maintains herself it is bearable if you really like a girl. Keep in mind there are many ways to please a lady, and you don't have to eat her out. Although, keep in mind sucking a dick for her is about the same as you eating her out so if she sucks your dick be grateful.
Oral takes a long time. You will be down there for 20-45 minutes. If you aren't prepared for that commitment, don't waste either of your time trying oral. Technique wise is case by case, but my main advice is to not switch up your style abruptly. Stick with a motion, if she is responsive continue said motion.
This guy doesn't know how to eat pussy.
OP first of all, get a girl who has good hygiene. Don't put up with nasty vagina.
How to eat pussy:
Step 1: Get the girl turned on. Never go right for the clit, ever. Start with a massage, then take the girls pants off and give her ass a massage. Slowly move to the upper thigh, and spread the ass then squeeze so the vagina opens and closes slightly. This gets the juices flowing
2. When the girl is getting wet, turn her over and start kissing up her thigh, licking around her vagina, but don't lick it yet. Pretend you're about to lick it then skip over and start kissing and licking the other side and down her other thigh.
3. Massage the labia with lots of lube/oil/saliva and squeeze the vagina. It can take a lot of pressure, don't be afraid. Squeeze your hands together on it to make it stick out, and continue to kiss around it.
4. At last, it's time to eat pussy. Kiss and lick around it, then stop and hover with your mouth right above the vagina for a few seconds. Then just lay your tongue down on it like a wet rug. just let your tongue lay on it like a warm towel.
PT Two below
Step five: after warming up her vagina with your tongue without doing anything, do this. A loooong slow lick with lots of pressure from the bottom of the vagina all the way up. Don't touch the clit yet. Just do four or five long slow wet licks up the vagina without hitting the clit.
Step 6: Add the clit to your licks, but continue to do the slow long licks
Step 7: Lick slowly and with force and saliva, but now add this in: DO NOT FLICK THE CLIT WITH YOUR TONGUE, it sucks. What you do is this: Form your lips around her clit, cover as much area as possible, and suck. Form a vacuum with your mouth on your vagina. Suck on her clit like a girl would suck on a half inch long cock. Form the vacuum and push your head in and back, and find the motion the girl enjoys best. If you're not sure, just suck on it and don't move and she'll start moving up and down at the pace she wants you to go.
Step 8: Continue the sucking motion and when your mouth gets a bit tired, switch to slow long licks with lots of pressure, but don't forget to suck.
step 9: When the girl says she is getting close, form the vacuum and add more pressure with your head. Move up and down with your head pushing into her clit. When she cums, leave your mouth and tongue covering her vagina. Stop all movement when she cums, just lay your tongue and mouth on top of her vagina. Your girl is now yours forever.
Remember: Flicking sucks, sucking rocks.
did your past gf practice good hygiene?
there's a certain level of tolerance that you need to have. my gf smells slightly off if we're fooling around late but once i'm down there then olfactory adaptation kicks in and it's fine. my gf tastes fine, never had an issue with it.
as for technique, get her in the mood through kissing, touching, and etc. women tend to need foreplay for the foreplay unless they're horny already.
definitely utilize your hands/fingers during oral. she should be wet by now, use saliva if she isn't wet enough. get one finger in and work towards a second. i suppose more fingers are fine if she wants it but you typically only need two. a combination of either the ring and middle fingers or the middle and index fingers is best to use. as the other anon stated, what you're looking to do is perform a "come here" motion (palm up, fingers pointed away from you, then curling the fingers to motion them back to you) to stimulate her g-spot. some girls might like the whole "jackhammering" with the fingers but the gspot stimulation is what you should focus on.
the goal with all of this is to get blood to her sex organs and to get her in the mood. women need to be mentally "in the zone" to really enjoy sex. all the petting and the fingering is prep work. massage her thighs, play with her nipples, massage her labia and general groin area.
the key to being good at oral is to suck. doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl. you should SUCK the clit. don't lick pussy. that shit doesn't do anything. you see it in porn because actual oral technique isn't visually stimulating since the viewer wouldn't be able to see anything. hacking away at her clit may even hurt her if you're keeping a really rigid tongue.
start out slow when you're first sucking. don't just go 0 to 100, it doesn't feel good. start slow, keep building her arousal and ramp up the sensations as you go. just be patient. (contd)
good tips, but this is all copied from a lpt that was circulating years ago.
you're there to take care of her and get her off. she's probably sucking dick for 10-15 minutes, you can take the time to please her too.
in terms of rhythm and speed, that's something that'll be subjective for each girl.
if she says "don't stop" you don't fucking stop.
if she says "just like that" then that's not an invitation to go faster, slower, or to move. just do whatever the fuck you were doing.
if you can see her start to come, you can pick up the pace a little bit but don't change up too many things in your technique. you got her to the point of climax doing whatever you were doing. it got you to the dance so stick with it.
a good tip is to keep going till she pushes your head away. she's going to buck her hips and move around, just wrap your arms around her thighs and hold on.
her clit is going to be super sensitive after she comes so don't go for round two quickly (unless she asks you to). just cuddle her, compliment her, etc.
all the teasing and foreplay when giving oral is absolutely fucking pointless, as soon as the pussy is wet, you head for the clit, period.
Your goal is to make the woman cum, not give her a pussy massage. The vagina is insensitive as hell from everywhere except the clit so quit wasting your time and learn how to lick properly.
It's not rocket science.. Listen to your woman, keep doing what you're doing when you feel she's enjoying it and most of all, go with the flow.
There's absolutely no reason to make the whole ordeal a 45 minute lasting snoozefest of boredom when you know what you're doing.
Doesn't have to be 45 minutes mate, just get her as turned on as possible to the point where she's basically shoving your head into her clit.
It will make the orgasm 100x stronger than if you just go for it.
good copy pasta but I learned how to eat pussy from this video http://www.pornhub. com/view_video.php?viewkey=b29bbd9935898d9488d4
If he's not super into it, I don't really want him to do it, know what I mean? I love love love sucking dick. It turns me on. And for the most part every guy has been different in what he likes, I'm guessing it's the same for girls.
Just make her tell you what she likes. Pay attention to what you're doing when she moans more.
1) It helps to be attracted to women. Also a pre-sex shower helps a lot.
2) Communicate with your partner. Some ladies have super sensitive clits so less is more with stimulation, but others have insensitive clits and only come with major stimulation. Also Nina Hartley made a cunnilingus how-to with some methods that have worked well for me in the past, might wanna check it out.
Have her lie near the edge of the bed and get on your knees on the ground leaning onto the bed so that your head is level with her pussy. Makes it far more comfortable for extended sessions.
eating pusssy has never tasted bad to me...vaginas almost taste sweet. the one thing that really matters is that you show enthusiasm and let her know that you enjoy it too. you wouldn't enjoy having your dick sucked if you thought the girl thinks it's gross. also don't gag wtf thatd going to be an immediate turn off
My current boyfriend doesn't like it either...so he is not an oral guy. He did it twice but won't willingly or enthusiastically go down. No hygiene issues here, he just doesn't like the "slimey" texture. I'm not a fan of sucking his sometimes shrimp smelling cock but I do it because he likes it. Wish he was cut instead of a foreskin hoarding smegma. Godamn.
Your guy is lucky AF
I'm cut and have eaten pussy immediately after cumming in it if she didn't cum before me.
Your bf should feel like the luckiest guy on Earth for having a girl like you.
Here's a tip for guys:
I'm also a guy and no matter how great you think your orgasms are, if you eat a girl's pussy, your girl will try to make your next orgasm the best of your fucking life.
I dont mind eating pussy tbbqh, just hearing the girls reactions gives me a boner
Make sure the girl smells good, if not, dont eat. that simple.
I m practically drooling on the pussy whenever I eat it. Hot saliva on pussy apparently is a big turn on.
1) dont force yourself if she smells/taste bad; its probably for your own good, she may have a UTI
2) rhythm and variety and lots of spit