Why is there so many stuck up fat girls? like ones that always shoot for 8-10/10 guys... I have a group of friends, who for the most part, are all nerdy as shit, cept one of our friends who despite being nerdy, is able to pick up women easily, he is always going on about how he has to beat fat girls off of him with a stick. But they don't seem to give us the time of day... he says its because all women aim high even when their dating blue book value is low, and when they get rejected over and over they blame shallowness and vapidness when they were trying to get with him because he is good looking and has a lot of money. I don't know if what he says is true or not, he even goes as far to say he envies us, that if he was stronger willed he wouldn't date and hook up because its a giant headache for little reward.
Is what he says true?
He says its the whole "real women have curves" thing and the "all sizes are beautiful" bullshit. He says its made women who are fat think that they are just as attractive to everyone as a nice fit girl. He doesn't date or hook up with fat girls, he says its very very very rare him and his friends do, but it doesn't stop the fat girls from trying.
No he tells them how it is, he has gotten drinks splashed in his face and called a chauvinistic pig for telling a girl who was all over him, he isn't into women who are "so curvy" at that same party he had a bunch of other fat girls try. He had to get rid of the shirt he wore there because it was stained with a bunch of shit. One of the girls who splashed a drink on him I had hit on before on campus, she told me flat out she was out of my league, when I asked what she meant, she said, she doesn't date fat nerds.
she is heavier than I am...
I'm like chunky, shes Obese.
Your friend kinda sounds like an idiot. But some things he says are true.
My fat female friends have more dating standards than I do. And they've strangely had more partners than I have. But I think their past boyfriends were pretty beta, even if their looks were at least average, they must have had a thing for fat girls and we're capable of telling them what they wanted to hear. Their relationships generally don't last long.
And I honestly think I'm more attractive and I'm somewhere between skinny/average. I've been in a relationship for over 5 years with a chubby, but good looking guy with an awesome personality. But with my fat friends, they are like "he need to treat me like a queen and pay for me and this and that and other things." I think that's a recipe for failure
Bullshit, it's 100% of them. All them fucking fat asses think they're models when in reality, they all look fucking hideous. It's ridiculous.
It's not being confident, it's called being delusional. They're fucking ugly as fuck and they think they're the shit.
>It's not being confident, it's called being delusional. They're fucking ugly as fuck and they think they're the shit.
Whatever you want to call it, the effect is that they know what they want and they make an effort to get it. And many of them do get what they want. I know a girl who's a literal hamplanet who's dated (and dumped) semi-professional rugby players because she's confident and fun to be around.
One of my friends does have a girlfriend who is obese, but she isn't like the stuck up fat women me and my friends normally see. She is big but the girl who said she doesn't date fat nerds was bigger. His girlfriend is amazing, even has our rich friend jealous, she cooks, she cleans, shes nice, shes funny, shes feminine, she texts our friend funny cute things all the time. Shes laid back and chill... only complaints I hear about her is she snores, eats a lot and sends him tit and vag pics at bad times. I would love a girl like her, I would treat her like a princess, if she was as nice and sweet as my friend's girlfriend... all my friends would love a girl like her, but instead we're in this shitty dating pool.
>doesn't know how to turn down a girl with tact
>wonders why he gets drinks thrown at him
I'm not saying he's wrong to turn down girls he's not attracted to, but there are socially acceptable ways to do it
>If they are really nice to you, however, I think you have an obligation to be nice back.
Exactly. We don't know how she approached him. If she was nice about it, then he shouldn't have rejected her in the manner that he did.
>she told me flat out she was out of my league, when I asked what she meant, she said, she doesn't date fat nerds.
>she is heavier than I am...
>I'm like chunky, shes Obese.
What does that matter? She's not allowed to have standards because she's fat? By that logic, you can't have standards either. I don't mean to defend her, but your logic seems very one-sided
How do you approach a guy in a stuck up manner? If you want to get with a guy, you'd be nice - it doesn't pay to be a bitch. It's more likely she was nice about it than not, which makes the guy's response not okay
We can argue about this all day, but unless we know how she approached him, we can't come to a conclusion. It's possible that his reaction was one of an asshole, and it's possible that his reaction was appropriate. In the former scenario, her reaction to his is deserved, in the latter it's not. We don't know.
Not a woman but I am fat. I can give you some insight into my fat mentality. You see, I fucking hate myself. A lot. I'm disgusted and ashamed every time I look in the mirror. So, why would I ever want someone who looks like me? I don't. I want someone who looks not like me. Obviously my success rate with thin women is at 0% but that's way better than any fat chick. Going after the hottest people you can is natural and I do so without shame.
Exactly. I think mose men will agree we need to round up all the fat women, put them on buses, and send them to camps where they become a normal weight and are re educated not to be massive cunts.
Most of the world needs to be gathered up and re-educated for the latter actually. Can't make one group of people less shitty, and then throw them back in with everyone else. They'll just switch back.
Why are there so many stuck up fat girls?
Because men will still date them and treat them like they're just as good as a fit girl.
Because women will say it's ok to be a heffer and they're just as good as anyone else.
The only women who date within or below their range are single moms. They lure men in by claiming theyre independent. They will clean, cook, and fuck a guy anytime until the man starts fucking them regularly, moves in, or marries them. Then they change into the stuck up bitch again.
Sorry, didn't mean to sound harsh. But that's the way dating seems to work. I am also a bit bitter, the friend with the awesome girlfriend just described their date last night... I am honestly jealous.
How exactly is he lucky? She may cook and clean, but she's overweight. It's not healthy and she doesn't have the mental stability to stop and work out more. If he marries her and she has a kid you can bet he won't be getting sex or as much attention anymore, plus she won't lose that extra weight from being preg.
There are women still out there who are like your friend's gf, fat or not, but it's up to you to be confident and not a doormat towards women. Work on yourself and learn to spot red flags while talking to women so you can see their shitty attitude early on.