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I am married, I love my husband and I want to be with him.
I feel attraction towards his brother, who is very similar to my husband, and is quite handsome.
Since I noticed such feelings, I try to avoid him, I try to be colder with him or be fake-basic with him, trying to just be kind and move on. As I would treat a random person. I also try to imagine he is evil or try to focus in his bad aspects. that worked for a while.
But since he broke up with his girlfriend, he tries to hang out with his brother and comes often home to visit. He is starting to be nicer to me, and I still try to be cold, but it seems very awkward.
Now he gave me a christmas gift, and I truly had to be nicer to him and even gave him a hug, but that just made those feelings greater, even if I have been trying to reduce.
Sometimes my husband seems worried because I try to avoid all contact with his brother: never hug him, or shake hands, and all I say is I get shy.
What do I do? I want to be 100% loyal to my husband, I don't want to have these feelings, and all I find on internet is religious prayers.
any psychological advice? how can I become neutral towards him?