>Be dorky girl who looks 8/10 AT BEST if I'm your type.
>Have major crush on guy couple years older than me very popular in college who's 9/10 on average day; never met him
>Now we're both graduated
Is there a way to ask him out in a non-creepy way through social media aka Facebook and not come off as a creepy random ass stranger, and not be rejected?
>8/10 at best
Thats actually pretty attractive and you should be turning heads if thats the case. Anyway you never met him so he probanly has no idea who you are. If you want to you can try hanging around places he goes to and strike up a convo there or ty and find him on okc, but dont fb him, that is weird.
this is about an 8/10
no man is ever going to find anything you do creepy, *ever*, if you're really that attractive.
I've never posted my picture here. I'm talking real life.
Oh god that sounds so stalker-y but yea.. the fb idea was too weird. Well he's in med school now. Should I wait for him to become a doctor then get a check up in a few years. lol
Any ideas for if I wanna be his life long partner?
Send him a nude selfie.
Caption it, "You want this?"
like I said I don't post pics here.
didn't say love. I have high standards for crushes. I turn down "hot" guys because they're just not personality-wise good enough. The reason I want him is because of his chosen profession that is my goal husband and hidden fetish, and the fact I've stalked him enough to know he is the only guy who likes the same weird bands that I do. The looks of course just makes it perfect
find him on tinder or message him on facebook. small talk, get his number or prompt him to ask for your number, text back and forth a bit.
ask him if he wants to go to a show nearby if you like similar music or express interest in his profession/job and how you thought of going into that field. if you're a legit 8/10 then you can do just about anything assuming Chad isn't reserving himself for 9s and 10s.
>is there a way to ask him out without being rejected
this is the stupidest question i have ever heard. hold a gun to his head?
this is why this generation is so stupid. you guys cant even deal with the concept of rejection, jesus i know men think this way but women too?
its a private rejection no one would ever know.
>hold a gun to his head?
You're the stupid one for taking everything so literally. Obviously I meant unlikely to be rejected.
>this is why this generation is so stupid. you guys cant even deal with the concept of rejection
It's not being stupid. It's called being scared or more proud. Or whatever. Not stupid. You're not even making logical connections. Learn your words, stupid.
>its a private rejection no one would ever know.
How can you be sure this person doesn't talk and make fun if the asker goofs off? Lots of my friends talk about how creepy or whatnot their suitors can be.
I'm going to have a day or two to think about this very carefully crafted plan lol. What if I friend request him first and if he accepts it's a go signal and if not then no.
>you're the stupid one for assuming i was serious when asking for a way to ask out a guy without getting rejected
>cuz thats a thing right? the way i ask will reduce my chances of getting rejected?
>like, a cheatcode or something?
this is how dumb you sound.
>im not stupid, im proud
that is the stupidest (sorry, PROUDEST) thing i have ever heard. its pants on head proud.
ur not proud if you are afraid of rejection on facebook. someone who was proud wouldnt come to 4chan to get advice.
>how do you know he wont be talking about me to strangers and they'd look me up and tell me about it
you're njot even making logical connections. learn your words, proud.
are you seriously asking the hive of creeps on how to not be creepy? youre an idiot. im sorry but youre full retard. nobody here is capable of not being massively creepy.
im going to hope that youre only asking so you know what not to do
Nah, people i know irl might identify me here lol.
It is subjective though, like that other replier stating that 8/10 girl wasn't attractive to him... but yeah I've decided I'll do it. Just need to plan this out well.