My girlfriend claims to love me yet she is always posting pictures of hunky, bearded men on her FB and commenting with other women on them. She tells me its just fun. I can't help but feel totally inferior and ashamed compared to the male model guys she seems to obsess over. I could never be those guys, I'm simply not attractive, well built or hirsute enough.
If I posted pictures of glamour girls or catwalk models on my social media, she's get all insecure I'm sure. Why do women do this? Why are unashamed in lusting after men that their boyfriends could never match up to? I don't get angry or show any jealousy because I know women find that a massive turn off and that and it makes you look weak. But I'm fucking sick of this shit.
>Why do women do this?
Your girlfriend does this, not all women.
Realize that your girlfriend loves you for who you are, and you don't need to be a model to be lovable. It is normal to have physical preferences, but personality traits and affection can often make them way less important.
If you've been with her long enough, talk to her about this and tell her that it makes you feel a bit insecure. I wouldn't think less of my boyfriend if he showed me some insecurities.
I have a secret folder of hot guys that I keep hidden in my /fit/ folder (lel) but I wouldn't ever show a guy I'm interested in for that reason.
I know how it feels op, sucks that your gf disregards your feelings about it though. Does she ignore your concerns about other things as well?
But most of these guys look NOTHING like me, in a way that makes me feel like shit. She even posts pictures of hunky, older men in their 50s and shit.
I don't get the female mind at all
Meh, guys do it to.
Well-adjusted adults talk their shit out, they don't pretend things don't bother them like you're doing. Whenever the two of you decide that you want to be grown ups you should have the conversation about this subject.
I like tall and lanky nerds with baby faces, and my boyfriend is barely taller than me, has a huge beard and an average body. I still think he's attractive, just not the type I am crazy for. He is the best person I know, even if he's not the most attractive guy I've ever met. If she's with you, it means that she thinks you're physically attractive enough.
If it makes you insecure, talk to her.
But, she honestly won't get a better looking guy bc they go for like the REALLY top notch got girls. Then here I am a young semi decent nerdy girl and I have no one XD ull be fine. It so happens that some girls like plain looking guys. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ believe me yo
Well, OP, we can't always get what we want. I wish my boyfriend looked more like you, and I'm sure my boyfriend wished I looked more like Cate Blanchett, but I guess we will both survive and be happy nonetheless.
Just don't focus on that, I'm sure that she has plenty of reasons to love you, and she likes your appearance even if you don't look like her absolute ideal.
She has no respect for you, imagine if were you who was posting pic of model looking girls and telling how hot they are, you have to be exactly what she wants, if she is with you, but lusting after other men, you're fucked when a hot bearded player step in her way.
Talk to her about how you feel.
Point out that when you post glamorous women on your FB and she gets upset, you feel the same way when she does the same thing when she posts hot guys on hers.
Her public behavior is immature.
Yours is also stupid. She's spelling out exactly how to make her worship you. I understand that you can't grow a beard or restructure your facial bones but you can still try to be hot in your own way. It's sad that girls get insecure in places where guys ought to be inspired. So don't take a page out of their book and be insecure too. Get inspired. Become as hot as you can. She clearly has no problem showing appreciation for it.
your gf is ugly as fuck desperately wishing to have whatever she cant have, her posting her obsessions to the masses is literally a broadcast of her delusions. enjoy sticking dick in brain dead obsolete women who are worse than depraved pindicks men
Basically, you are another loser, who is dating a loser, who gave up on life. Hey, at least you are honest with yourselves unlike me.
Oh btw, if it wasn't clear, the answer to your question is "You will never actually please her."
My bf used to do the same thing but with redhead girls. I'm blonde. It made me feel really shitty and it messed me up for a long time. But eventually I talked to him about it and he stopped.
Ex girlfriend straight up flipped bc I had done the same thing posting some girls when I was still single
I tried to smooth things out with her but she literally thinks I was never attracted to her bx none of them "looked like her" type
Idk OP. I can only say talk before its too late...