in public places my bf has me sit on his lap when he has a boner, or brushes my hand against him on purpose. being a virgin this is awkward. not sure how to address it.
>not sure how to address it.
open your mouth, take a deep breath, and as air escapes your lungs use that air to form words with your lips, tongue and throat.
talking is usually the best way of communicating between humans but i suppose if you're not good at that you could also try writing.