I don't know what to do. When i was only about a month pregnant my boyfriend and father of my child told me that he cheated on me with his other baby mama. Now a year and a half later he has been telling me he loves me throughtout the whole time and it was the biggest mistake hes dver done meanshile he's living with his baby mama still. He calls me almost 2 times a day always tells me he loves me and everyone around saids he's not like that with her at all. He saids he's trying to get his shit together but hes still having relations with her obviously since they're living together. He saids he has love for her because thats his baby mama but he's in love with me. I love him but I just dont want to be in this situation anymore. I feel like the other woman, his lover, his side chick. What do i do?
>What do i do?
Continue your life of mediocrity and stupidity. Your life is an episode of Jerry Springer and its a miracle you haven't wandered into traffic chasing a feather or gone blind staring at the sun for too long at this point.
Why would you settle as a side-chick? You have a one year old who does not need to see his mother getting bested by his own dad. Furthermore you don't need to be with this guy just because he wants you. He sounds like a piece of shit if he thinks he deserves to be with you after cheated while you were pregnant. Stay single til your kids in preK and let that man be with his original family.
Stay away from him.
He's already knocked you and another girl up. He blew you off and went to fuck her again. Now he wants to come back to you? That's hilarious.
In another year, he'd want her back. Hell, he might knock up a third girl if he hasn't already. The sooner you move on from him the fucking better off you'll be. People like that rarely change, enough to the point where you'd be a fool to waste your time, effort, and feelings and praying that it will work out.
I feel bad for you OP, but if you really take this guy back, you're just going to be hurting yourself all over again and you'll only have yourself to blame.