Say you were in publci at a playground or something, and you notice a guy in his late 20s staring at your kid what would you do? Or would you guys even notice it in the first place? If you noticed it would you probably just ignore said guy?
>anyone looking in the direction of my child is probably a rapist and/or kidnapper
If you have thoughts about other people raping and kidnapping your children, that's just a projection of your OWN subconscious desires to do so. Please check yourself into therapy and stay away from your kids until you get better.