Okay so my ex is coming over this weekend to "hangout" we are both pretty close, and I think we both want the same thing. When I invited her over she started talking about all of the funny and embarrassing sexual things we did while we were together. So what should I do when I go to pick her up? Should I offer her some gum? Should I flirt with her a bit?
if you two are still talking about sexual things, i think it would be fine to just bring up the fact that you want to be FwB, plus she could end up being your prom date because you know she will put out. the reason why it is so easy to become FwB with an ex is because they are used to you sexually so if you are still talking to them in a friendly way, it is almost like there is a level of comfortability there. also, why did you two break up, because this could backfire if you suspect that she wants to get back together or still has feelings for you
Because it pretty much never ends well.
You say you think you two want the same thing. But you're not sure. You need to make sure you both are on the same page if you plan on fucking her anyways. That way she doesn't get the wrong idea because it will turn into a dramatic clusterfuck.
Even if you both are on the same page at this time, chances are that one of you two will start feeling differently later on. And it's going to be just another wave of hurt for whoever it happens for if the feeling isn't mutual. People always say that there's no way it will happen to them but sure enough, it ends up eventually happening the majority of the time.
>How do I start her up? Should I touch her ass and legs while we are watching tv? Or just go in for a kiss?
Are you seriously asking us advice about how to fuck a girl you've already fucked?