How do I get rid of a stalker? I tried talking to her about it, telling her to stop, without success. She also frequents this board for as far as I know. Is seizing contact completely the only way to get her off my back? She might think I'm playing along or something, but I don't think she really believes that.
shes not a stalker if you havent tried to cut her out of your life. until then shes just really invested in your relationship (to whatever extent that may be).
block her on facebook, send her one lastd text 'blocking you, please leave me alone, do not talk to me, do not approach me, do not come near my home goodbye'
then block her. NEVER respond. ever. if she shows up at your place say 'leave or i will call the cops'. if she does not leave, call the cops.
there is a relationship. relationships arent just dating. you have a relationship with everyone you meet, even if its just aquaintance. so until you block someone, shes taking your casual relationship and blowing it out of proportion trying to make it better.
cut er off
Don't play a game. Make it clear as many times as possible. Don't start putting the knight cap on and start being overly ridiculous in the situation. Just calm down, make it clear, block the person. And done. If she starts following you and knowing where you are then make an effort. Other than that. Be clear, be precise, and block. If you are attractive you are going to deal with a lot of this. And she is not going to be the only one in your life that may do this. You are going to have the fair share of creeps too. Do not be vengeful either, that will worsen things. And do not play Mr. Cop either and have your friends play the cops as well. It is very simple: Clear, precise, and straight forward and block. Person does not understand and tries to overly approach make it clear. And I doubt you think what Ryan Gosling goes through too.
I think you should at least try. Call her up and tell her you would talk with her and if she free later on today. If she is say great and that you'll pick her up at 7pm and that you have some reservations for (insert her favorite restaurant).