I went on a date with a woman which ended in us having sex.
She then decides to tell me that I should date other women and to move on because she's crazy/a saboteur.
>thanks for the heads up
We still talk on the phone a lot everyday and have since before we decided to meet. She would randomly ask me about dating a specific woman and I would shrug it off
>why do you care? You told me you didn't want to date me exclusive.
So after she asked once again I decided to tell her that I've seen the woman but I wouldn't call it a date.
She gets upset and remarks that she feels some kind of way that I'm talking to her even though we're not dating. She then asks me "why are we talking everyday then?" and she sounds hurt.
Could someone please explain to me why she's upset? She already told me she doesn't want to be with me so why does she care? Also, why does she call me every damn day if she doesn't want to be with me and talk to me affectionately.
When will you understand that men and women work differently?
Women are a lot more emotional which is not a good or bad thing, it's just the way it is.
That woman was expecting you to tell her the reasons why you wanted to be exclusive and stuff, why you're talking to her a lot, that you like her, etc...
She was testing you by telling you to go date someone else, she wanted you to prove how much you cared.
Her telling you she's crazy and the other red flags in this short post make the situation different, but her reaction isn't all that strange. I think it's pretty common for people to get jealous even of someone they aren't dating, I've felt jealous of guys I liked being flirtatious with other girls but I can handle it because I know it's natural and nothing to make a fuss over, which makes it go away.
The fact that she outlined that she's "crazy" makes the encounter completely different, though. She's probably freaking out in her head 10x more than the average person who has interest in someone would. I would probably avoid her if I were you, sounds like bad news in the future.
>she's crazy/a saboteur
You know what's great about this? She's telling the truth and its still a trap. It's like a giant red button that says "Do Not Push".
But seriously, she's probably just hot enough to get away with this stuff, insecure enough to think this is appropriate or both. I say this without humor: Get out now. Leave.
It's sort of a weird reverse shit-test. In this case, you want to do what she's suggesting, but you need to do it on your own terms.
>If I want to date you, that's what I'm gonna do until you decide you don't like it
but you keep fucking other girls and not really giving a shit about her (meaning; caring whether she's dating you or not, still play nice tho)
it's basically a free pass to consider her your side bitch