I prematurely ejaculate every fucking time I have sex and I'm pretty sure it's because my dick is curved upwards. My girlfriend loves it but the pressure on my dickhead makes me bust so fast and it's absolutely ruining my confidence. I don't know what to do. I've tried cumming before we have sex but then I can't really stay hard. So I either need a way to fix my premature ejaculation or figure out some way to get hard after I've already busted and stay hard. Please help
Don't really have advice about it. But I can tell you it's probably not nearly as big of a deal for your gf as it is for you. Just make sure there's lots of foreplay for her.
If it is because your dick is curved have you tried different positions that use different angles?
This is a serious suggestion. If you pretend that you're giving it to Trump instead of your gf, then you definitely won't feel the urge to cum. Or think of something else thats disturbing..
OP here. Thinking of Donald Trump will definitely make me lose my erection... but I have tried many positions. My dick is significantly curved though which is good for the girl. Really compensates for the lack of girth. I use condoms and that slows things down a decent amount but still it's under 30 seconds if I just stroke normally. Thanks for the suggestions guys
Multiple times usually twice. The second time is usually good but the problem is we only sleep together on the weekends since she works but I go to school. So I go 5 days without pussy every week and I'm back to square one.
Decent suggestion honestly. I am also Thinking about just asking a doctor for cialis or something and hiding it from her.
Fuck this problem causes me a lot of grief in my otherwise happy life.
Okay OP. I'm going to tell you a very simple and fun solution to your problem. I am also going to impart some relationship advice to you for the future.
So what youre going to do, is you're going to have the following conversation:
> "Bae, you know my problem with nutting too fast because you feel so good?
"Aww <pet name>, you're so sweet. You know I don't mind"
>"I know. But it's just that i want to see you have fun too. I want to fuck you and be able to mix up positions and do all these things that'll allow us to have more fun in bed"
"Oh OP, you're the first guy that has ever cared about / put emphasis on MY pleasure. So how do we fix it?"
You then propose taking a short weekend break to a hotel or something and just fuck endlessly until your dick can't nut anymore, but you're still aroused as fuck. I took my fiance to Paris and one night we fucked about 3 times in the space of 5 or 6 hours. By the third, my nut was so empty but i found i could just keep fucking her and feeling her twitch.
Just apply the same principles. Just fuck without thinking that its a problem, and youll fuck yourself empty that it cant be a problem. And don't forget, alpha up and take charge. Make love to that pussy without thinking you MUST make her orgasm or that you MUST last a certain amount of time. Once you let go, you'll be more confident in licking her / making her come, and your dick will begin to obey you.
Train your erection and cumming. Masturbate till your on the edge of exploding, stop, hold it in, squeeze your penise whatever, wait till the urge go away, do it again till your close to the edge rinse and repeat till you make it to 30 min than blow your load. Try doing this for like 2 to 3 times a day for a couple of months until you are use to it.
Guy with PE here.
Problem is that is it fucks up sex.
She wants to get fucked hard for an hour, not fucked hard for 2 minutes- wait a minute of gentle thrusts or just kissing- 2 minutes of fucking hard- repeat 20 times.
no personal experience, but it sounds like the numbing agent is on both sides of the condom. reviews say that it's strong enough to lose feeling in your genitals for a significant amount of time
I have done it and it works for me. But I know everyone is different so it won't work for everybody. But what you said works to. Go hard and fast, stop kiss, caress, or go really slow. When the feeling goes away go hard and fast again. Like what you said rinse and repeat.
Op what I said and the one below my previous post said can work. It's not a mental issue it's a stimulation issue. So give both our method à try. Numbing condos don't really work for me. My dick curve to the right and had this issue for awhile.