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My dad is super strict with me and I have really tight rules that I have to follow. I'm only allowed to wear clothes he approves of, I'm only allowed to have girls over at our house, if I go anywhere I must leave GPS on my phone and check in every 30 minutes, I have to give him full access to my Facebook and he looks at my browser history to see what I'm looking at, of course I have to give him my phone at any time he asks for it. Even with all of this, I kind of okay with it. I don't dress like a skank anyway and I have nothing to hide from my dad so he can snoop all he wants, I'm a good girl. What really kills me is I have a curfew.

I have a 6PM curfew. 6. It's the only thing I really hate, sometimes I just want to hang out with my friends but 6 is like so early. I'm not even asking for 11PM or anything, I would be happy with 8PM but 9PM would be ideal.

How do I get my dad to compromise with me? He's really adamant about his rules. I've had the same curfew since I was 11 and I just feel like I deserve an upgrade you know.
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I hope you know he is mostly doing this because he loves you.... But if you want to extend your curfew you should just ask, but you should prepare to back yourself up on this.
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"Dad, I can't learn the social skills I need for the future with this 6 p.m. curfew. I really feel left out with my friends group. Can you push it back to 8:30?"
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4chan is an 18+ website, please leave
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>>16754495
I know hes just trying to protect me but I'm not asking for much. I asked him before and he said no. I need a better strategy.

>>16754514
I'm 19.
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tell him that you love him very much and that you know he is trying to protect you, but that sooner or later, you will have to live on your own, and you need to start taking on more responsibility and have more freedom so that you are able to adapt to living alone without failing.

Ps: what does your dad think about you coming on 4chan?
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>>16754529
if you're 19 then you're an adult and don't have to do anything he tells you, he has no legal right to enforce his demands
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>>16754529
>>16754539
We all know you're lying 'bout age, but fuck it.

Try and compromise by giving him the comfort of knowing where you are etc.
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>>16754531
I don't know, he's never mentioned it to me. I don't go anywhere pornographic and I don't he examines every website thoroughly.

>>16754539
I don't want to disobey him and get kicked out though.
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Damn, OP. You're already in his trap. He has total control over you. I'm surprised peer pressure hasn't caused you to stay out til late, Mr. >19 yr old
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>>16754486
Well, that's just pathetic, especially given the fact that you are 19 (!!!). I understand that some parents have a tendency to be overly protective but this is simply unhealthy. I don't know how can you even allow him do that; tracking you on GPS? Curfew at 6PM? That's not a sign of love, not at all. Possessiveness, obssesive need for control - you must be really brainwashed to go with it.

I can't imagine how you'll find yourself in real life. Sorry OP.
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>>16754529
Tell him that you don't want another lover. Daddies dick is enough for you but its hurtful the way he doesn't trust you.
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I always found that asking when my friends were over helped or try explaining to your parents how you will still follow the other check ups to let them know you are safe.
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Fuck your dad, he's an asshole. Girls should be out partying and having fun at 18. Tell your dad to get his ass out the pass. I bet he's a republican.
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>>16754561
Let's assume you are in fact 19 (but I doubt).

A 6pm curfew may be appropriate for someone under 15 but may also apply depending on where you live.

For example, if you are living somewhere with extreme weather he may have said 6pm because if something happens to you he may not be able to come and help you.

For someone who is indeed 19 then 6pm is too early and his control over you too tight - unless there are religious or cultural restrictions - in whihc case you have to decide if you want to respect and abide by them or rebel and live differently.
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>>16754486

Get a job, get your own place, and move out.
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>>16754647
>For example, if you are living somewhere with extreme weather he may have said 6pm because if something happens to you he may not be able to come and help you.

Yeah man I forgot about all those crazy snow demons that come out at 7:00PM during blizzards.
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>>16754627
>I bet he's a republican.

>>/pol/
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>>16754529
>I'm 19

No you're not. Adults don't make other adults live as strictly as your father makes you live. You're not 19. GTFO.
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>>16754529
Honestly it's time to move out our gain some more independence, that's the only way to grow as a person
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>>16754486

> Dad browses and monitors internet activity in the house
> Visits 4chan

Try harder with your bait.
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>>16754561
if you're unhappy with how things are, get a job and start saving. if he won't allow you to, you need to realize that you're being controlled and abused. seek a women's shelter in your area.

>>16754791
>deleting history
>incog mode
>dad not knowing what 4chan is

>>16754716
someone who has been being emotionally abused their whole life might not realize getting a job and leaving is an option. besides, you really think if he won't let her go out after 6 pm, he's going to -let- her move out?
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